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I found my boyfriends porn today and I'm kinda confused. He was looking at pictures of blondes with big boobs. Well I'm a brunette with A cups and he claims he loves my boobs and wouldn't change a thing about me. I just don't know whether to be offended or not this is just a shock.
Don't be offended. Guys like looking at many different types of naked women.
At least you didn't find your mother-in-laws PLAYGIRL PORN and a huge pink wrinkly dildo.
True story.
I was responsible for cleaning out my grandmothers house when she died. Im rather traumatized.
Let me guess, steam-powered, double-ended dildo?
JK! But no, really... what could you have possibly found? I'm... as weird as it sounds... interested to hear your tale of horror. o_O?
This monstrous dildo. I can't imagine anyone could take it. Condoms. Butt plugs and some sex books. One titled how to make sex marvelous. I guess I shouldn't have been surprised. When I was about fifteen she pulled a condom out of her purse and asked me if I knew what it was and proceeded to give me a sex talk. She also told me in her youth her nickname was bedroom eyes.
In a way, you should be more offended if he was looking at women who look exactly like you. Why would he be looking at them when he's already got you?
This is where you need to follow a specific checklist
1) Don't snoop in his files etc.
2) Understand that his porn tastes have nothing to do with you. It's not a statement on your looks or body, or anything like that. In a nutshell it has nothing to do with you period.
3) Masturbation - even masturbation to other people's pictures - isn't cheating. Again it has nothing to do with you.
I'm sure he loves you regardless, porn isn't anything personal. It's just a way of getting off.
I get off to porn, but by the time the "big finish" comes I usually find myself closing my eyes and imagining that I'm doing those things to my girlfriend. Maybe he does the same?
You should also understand, that even if you make him delete all that you've found, you'll never separate a man from porn permanently. We're like bread and butter, meant to be together.
There are many different hair colours and body shapes. It doesn't mean you should be restricted to only find one of these types attractive.
Anyway, it's only porn! He doesn't know these women. They probably don't want to know you boyfriend either. Porn is what men do. It doesn't mean anything personal against you.
Don't worry about it my hubby used to (over time it got boxed and thrown in the basement) watch porn with all girls with big butts but I'm on the smaller side back there but he loves my butt I know he does because hes always touching it all. I know a woman her husband still to this day watches Asian and cartoon porn but shes a big white American woman but he loves her body. Men look at all types it don't mean he don't love you and you body. If he didn't enjoy your body he wouldn't be with you and having sex with you.