I find myself extremely weak and worthless

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I'm extremely short and weight about 97 pounds. I'm like 4'11". I think just because I'm a girl who gets her piece of attention from everyone I do not often feel this worthless but in moments when it comes to physical strength I feel weak as hell. My brother is into gymming and stuff he's 18 and he's got his ego soaring high because of the body he has built. Whenever I'm an inconvenience to him he pins me to the ground and just because I'm extremely emotional I cry out of helplessness because I just can't stand being helpless. He would not even punch me or slap me like we used to do when we were kids, he would just wait for me to cry. He often likes to prove that I'm an inferior person and a nobody whenever we quarrel. My brother is condescending to others as well I believe but I whenever he behaves like that to me I feel that's because I'm nothing but a short, petite FEMALE. That's my absolute weak point and nothing hurts me more than that feeling. It depresses me that I'm so weak and so helpless. Irrespective of my stature I have maintained a very powerful female image of myself in all my social circles so whenever i feel otherwise I feel like an empty shell of a human and extremely depressed. I'm not a little bitch

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  • arthurtheaardvark99
    7 years ago

    your brother sounds like a terrible person. he has no right to put you down like that. never think that you are weak and worthless for being a female, in fact you are stronger than him where it counts - in your heart. only a guy who is really insecure would try to physically dominate women.

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    • Disappointmentaf
      7 years ago

      You are right but yk it's like he doesn't even seem to think of me as a woman because he's my brother he would actually think of me as a sister and it's a little embarrassing to tell you tbh but he calls me ''bro' lol The thing is no matter what he is my little brother and he's childish beyond his years. We need to teach him to not be condescending to other people as well in general because it's seems like he's gradually manners with gaining muscles.

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  • CorruptedSoul
    7 years ago

    We aren't living in the wild or Prehistoric times where being as big as an ape and physical strength is necessary to survive. There are far more important things these days to get ahead, Ie intelligence. I wouldn't worry about it

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    • Disappointmentaf
      7 years ago

      Thank you, even I have all my life thought that intelligence matters more, explains why I'm not strength wise so competitive but I don't regret that often.

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  • dale080988
    7 years ago

    Your not weak and your brother should not put you down just be your self and don't let others put you down stand up and be strong

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  • Cedric_Diggory
    7 years ago

    It made me feel really sad when I read the part where you say that you start to cry when things happen that makes you feel helpless. It made me want to hold you close and protect you from direct sunlight.l

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    • Disappointmentaf
      7 years ago

      Aw man you so sweet. Its all sorted now he apologised, felt terrible and said he never intends to make me cry or even hurt and said that do not think of yourself as weak cause you are a 'force to reckoned with' and 'the real boss' lol . Thank you for the support. Xo

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  • RandyRascal
    7 years ago

    She who sucks cock the best, in the end, shall have ultimate power.

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    • MissileExpert
      7 years ago

      Don't be such a tool. At least give her a link to an instructional video so she can learn to suck better than the other girls.

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      • RandyRascal
        7 years ago

        If you're so smart, why don't you give her a link?

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        • MissileExpert
          7 years ago

          Because, I'm working a recreational problem in the thermodynamics of nuclear processes at the moment.

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          • RandyRascal
            7 years ago

            Well fuck, I don't know. Go to redtube-dot-com and search for "Erotic Blowjob Instruction" I suppose. I mean what-the-fuck, it's the internet, man.

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    • Disappointmentaf
      7 years ago

      I'm celibate you little bitches.

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    • jwzc96
      7 years ago

      Shut up you sick individual

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    • MissileExpert
      7 years ago

      Don't be such a tool. At least give her a link to an instructional redtube.com video, so she can learn to suck better than the other girls.

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  • Disappointmentaf
    7 years ago

    I talked to my brother he had no idea I emotionally felt that bad he thought I would just start crying because I'm dramatic. I have been a more emotionally vulnerable person all my life more than both of my siblings so sometimes they just need to be reminded of that I'm not exactly like them and I can take things very badly. My brother is a nice boy, he reminded me that I'm the boss in the end and can punch his face in return of all that previous drama which I kindly rejected

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  • jwzc96
    7 years ago

    You're not weak and worthless, in fact no one seems to think you are except your brother, which tells me it has more to do with your brother rather than you. Please talk to a counselor about this, and please if possible tell your parents about this. He has no right to treat you that way. God bless and I pray for you :)

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  • peterrabbyt4
    7 years ago

    Do you take it up the ass?

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  • SwiftyE
    7 years ago

    I'll fck your brother up

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  • _Rainbow_
    7 years ago

    The problem, to me, comes from your brother. You should tell him about this. If he doesn't listen, then maybe he's just a jerk. Maybe you should try to understand him or to ask him why he does that or thinks that way.

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  • shuggy-chan
    7 years ago

    You all are worthless and weak!!!!!

    https://youtu.be/V9AbeALNVkk

    You made me think of this intro (2:00)

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    • Disappointmentaf
      7 years ago

      Aw nah son. That was momentary.

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  • Murun
    7 years ago

    Your brother has the problem I think, not you.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    7 years ago

    git a stun gun and zap his ass

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  • KekReptilian
    7 years ago

    Perhaps you can look into maximizing your physical fitness and fighting & self defense techniques. You can't change your size but you can make the most of yourself. It could help you psychologically around feeling overly vulnerable.

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  • felixy
    7 years ago

    Make peace with the reality that you can't compete with men physically. A woman's strengths are in her charm, her femininity, and in getting guys to move stuff for her. You being petite actually benefits you in this regard. Carry pepperspray and always think before getting into potentially dangerous situations.

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