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two days ago i had a videochat with my bf and im turned off now
i feel disappointed cus he doesnt look like in the pics he sent to me,he looksa bit retarded
i used to love him insanly but now my feelings toward him changed
i dont wanna look like a shallow girl and tell him the truth
he is so good but he doesnt look right to me
and i like talking to him cus im so lonely
Well, what does he do wrong to make you so bored? His looks? If it's because of his looks, please, just look past that! He could be kind, sweet, loyal, you just don't realize it! Or is it because your just used to all of it and you want to try something new? You should tell him about how you feel. I understand, you feel lonely, so you talk to him. I mean, common! I'm alone, I'm perfectly fine! Nobody to judge you, nobody to tell you know. Long story short, If he makes you feel wrong, then move on. You could get lonely, but try finding someone new, if you feel like you don't want someone, heck, try a pet, They make you feel so happy and warm!
looking retarded doesn't mean that they are retarded . Perhaps you're the one who is a retard .
ive read a story where a guy broke up with his girlfriend because of her hairstyle -_- lol
please try not to let looks come inbetween love
does he look like this?
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/61/d0/00/61d000bd4d4c511450eda27e921bda76.jpg
im sure you can get used to his face
so you automatically stop loving him because of his looks?
really?
you gotta try to look past that.
You seem immature and shallow. Not sure how you can be so in love with someone that you never met. Regardless, just move on.
If you value appearance this much and are not attracted enough to his personality to grow more attached to him physically, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him.
It may be that you are such a perfectly formed specimen, that all men will fail your entrance exam.
You should get naked and look at yourself in a full-length mirror and see if you have any attributes that a man might not think are so perfect.
Then you could, using a point system, add or subtract for particular flaws.
If you have a big fat ass, that should cancel your boyfriends retarded looking eyes, etc.
Good luck.
So, you had a boyfriend, who looked great in the pictures he sent you, but now that you finally saw him in videochat you see he looks unusual.
Quick, dump him! At this rate if you actually ever meet your "boyfriend" IRL you'll realise he is really Quasimodo in disguise!