I find insecurity attractive??

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I find confident girls a bit of a turn off. They might be "pretty" but theirs somthing about confidence that i find unattractive. I often find myself being the only guy in the room to not find a certain female attractive etc. I find it a little frustrating actually. Its like c`mon lads, stop making this girls head even bigger. She has nothing to her personality, nothing.

I much prefer quite, shy and to be honest, self concious girls. Obviously looks are still important, but i find somthing very attractive in someone who is noticably nervous etc in social situations. I guess its odd because im not exactly quiet myself lol.... soooo yea, anyone else? is it normal?

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    From a pure personality perspective, you would probably find me extremely attractive since my self esteem constantly hovers at around zero.

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  • Infxmous
    12 years ago

    At the beginning of a relationship o when im just getting to know someone i find insecurity attractive... However it always leads to really bad relationships for me where i end up being the babysitter and the 24/7 support line. My point is while insecuritie are cute at the beginning, they become annoying as hell a little down the road. I dont need my boyfriend whining to me all the time about how scared he is im gonna find someone better and cheat on him etc.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    I'm like this as well. I find insecure girls easier to talk to, probably because I am insecure. Anyways, I think you are normal and hope that some day you meet a nice girl.

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
      12 years ago

      hi

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  • Sinensis
    12 years ago

    Yes, within limits.

    It's great if you like girls who are a little more introverted or soft-spoken, as long as you like them for themselves and not just this quality of themselves. Where it could get creepy is if you like them for that because you feel (perhaps subconsciously) that you could manipulate them, or make them feel that they're lucky to have you and couldn't do any better.

    So, in moderation!

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    • nowhereboy
      12 years ago

      Its deffo not a control thing. I just think its cute haha! I guess i like introspective people, deep thinkers n what not

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