I fell in love with my friend.

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My friend and I went to a club one Saturday night and had a great time. But the next Monday when I got to work everyone wanted to know if we were in a relationship. Because of how we acted and i said no. That got me thinking about him and 3 weeks have passed now and I can’t stop thinking about him. I told him how I feel about him and he said he feels the same. But he can stop Talking about this girl that left him. I am starting to thing he just said it to make me feel good and no we never talked about the feeling again but he can’t stop smiling at me and touching me if we are in the same room so I don’t know what to do.How do I talk to him.I am gay.

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  • nomadgirl
    12 years ago

    i know how you feel. At the end of the day, we just want someone we trust and love, to share all the crap that has happen. Falling for your friend is super normal. Everyone had that before some point in their life, but the question is what happens if you lay your cards on the table? Maybe your friend isnt looking for something serious at the moment, and if he considers you as much of a friend you consider him, then wait. Dont lose hope, he may just be testing you with that girl. I wish you luck and joy.....take care

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    It's normal - but I dont think thats your question....
    I wouldn't:
    send him an email (evidence for your employer to potentially use against you - in one way or another - favortism etc.)
    I would:
    Ask him out to lunch - see where it naturally progresses - I would go far away from co-workers, and even meet him somewhere.
    Just be supportive re: ex g/f for a bit - intro convo.... then ask him where he sees himself in a few years relationship wize.
    I dont know.... just a suggestion.
    Good Luck!

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