I feel weird i have had not one relationship and i'm 25f?

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Is it normal I have not dated nor had one relationship when I'm 25 years old? I feel quite gloomy about this. I dont want to date guys because majority are fuck head anyways and i just came out to my mother about a week ago and to my relief she was 100% fine if I come home with a female.
I just feel weird I haven't had a relationship yet nor done anything sexual ever. I dont even know how to get into a relationship. No one wants to talk to me or hang out. I try make friends online but they all dissapear

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Lestat565

5 years ago

It’s hard to find a relationship sometimes. People pretend to be what they think other people want so it’s hard to find a real person. And online people pretend more than anyone in my experience. But keep trying sooner or later you will find someone. Not all guys are fuck heads but if you prefer women anyway just keep trying

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SuperGrym

5 years ago

Completely normal.

I am older (29) and in a similar situation, due to being career focused.

You can in fact read about my first date here, if you want a good laugh: https://www.isitnormal.com/post/iin-i-got-dumped-on-my-first-date-for-lacking-experience-276712

I can assure you that it is not weird or abnormal to not have started dating even in the mid/late 20's, especially if you have been busy with life.

Many (not all, but many) of my university pals are still career focused in their late 20's/early 30's and have never dated for as long as I have known them. I have known most of them for around 10 years now, and they are still busy climbing the ladders.

The right guy is out there for you, somewhere. You just have to look at the right places. :-)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I dont want a guy
  
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  - SuperGrym
    
    5 years ago
    
    Guy, Gal or whatever floats your boat :-)
    
    There is nothing wrong with whichever direction you choose. LGBT is not weird at all these days.
    
    The above-mentioned regarding age is still valid though.
    
    Tldr: It's perfectly fine to be 25 (or older) w/o dating experience. It's not weird or abnormal in any ways.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      Thanks so much, I appreciate this!! :)
      
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Columbusbiguy

5 years ago

Sorry im confused. Are you lesbian, straight, or bi? You said you dont want to date guys because they are fuck heads. I would agree most of them are, lol. So you came out to your mom. But are you really bi or lesbian, or just fed up with guys? I think you need to figure out what you want first, men or women (or both). Then start looking to DATE first. Relationships happen over time. If you are expecting a relationship from the jump, that is off putting. Just meet some people and have fun. You will get there eventually.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I know I want a gf and more drawn to chicks so definitely am at least half gay haha. I know I dont want to date a guy ever really.
  
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BlindSpot

5 years ago

Try guys, you'll get a date soon

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I dont want a dumb guy, it's too easy
  
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  - BlindSpot
    
    5 years ago
    
    Exactly
    Try an intelligent one.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      I dont want a guy, full stop
      
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      - BlindSpot
        
        5 years ago
        
        Well you shoulda said so earlier
        
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ForgetfulGirl

5 years ago

I think it’s quite normal to not be in a relationship or ever gone on a date.

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leggs91200

5 years ago

If you are white, go to the ghetto part of town. I promise they will rectify the situation of you never having had sex.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Yuck, no thanks
  
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- Marshmall0wie
  
  5 years ago
  
  That would be one of the worst ways to lose it. 😅
  
  The first dozen times are generally horrible for girls.
  
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  - leggs91200
    
    5 years ago
    
    Yeah but she could get all 12 of those first horrible encounters over with in one night.
    
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    - Marshmall0wie
      
      5 years ago
      
      It does not work that way 😉
      
      Regardless of how many times you do it in a night, 1 night is what I regard as 1 encounter. It takes time for us girls to get used to it and learn to like it.
      
      I had a lot of sex a couple of years ago just for the heck of it, as it was supposed to be cool and *The Thing*. Never really felt that it was worth it, if I didn't love the person.
      
      I feel that sex is just so disappointing if done with just a friend. I'd please myself over sex any time, if there isn't an emotional connection involved.
      
      This is how I feel though. Everyone is different, so sex may float your boat, but not mine. 😉
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        5 years ago
        
        Sounds like you're demi sexual like me
        
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        Marshmall0wie
        
        5 years ago
        
        I identify myself as straight-asexual 😉
        
        I have no attraction to men or women, but I date men as I want a family some day. 😊
        
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chuy

5 years ago

Don't be I"m a guy 7 years older than you and still no relationship. I say, no company is better than bad company.

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  5 years ago
  
  Indeed
  
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Marshmall0wie

5 years ago

I'm a girl myself. While I agree that there are many dumb guys out there, I disagree that there are less dumb girls compared to guys. I would say it's quite equal.

Are you more sexually attracted to guys or girls? I saw the previous replies, but I'm still confused. Do you prefer girls because of the personality, or for sexual attraction?

If it's the latter, sure, go for it. If it's the former, then you have just not found your type of guys, as there are guys who are very intelligent. 😊

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Thanks gal, I definitely know I myself feel more attracted to females at this point and maybe forever so would like to try find a gf
  
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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

Relationships are overrated if said relationships aren't with the right person.

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brutus

5 years ago

Its normal.

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