I feel so obsessed

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Is it normal to be so obsessed with a person like I am? He's the only one I think about, I feel distracted to even do my homework, hang out with his friends more than with my own to be with him even more, in school the only thing I do is looking for him, at home I dream about him, I care way more about my appearance than I've ever done before, and I keep myself online on messenger just to wait till he writes to me, and I lie about stuff to him to make him more interrested in me.
All these things are killing me, I've never been like that - in fact - I used to think that love doesn't exist in this early age (16) and the worst thing is: I don't even know if he likes me?!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Wow. You have one big crush! Enjoy it. But try to not let it interfere with your normal activities, or with just being yourself with this guy.

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  • tabbs92
    14 years ago

    I agree with Ollieo.

    You're not the only one either, we've all felt like that at some part of our lives, don't worry about it.

    and finding love at 16? Yes you can! There's no limit as to when you can find love. Plus, When you do find the one, you'll just know :)

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  • littleone
    14 years ago

    Big crushes are fun, and given your age this behaviour is completely normal.

    Don't forget who you are though, and don't lose your buds. Crushes come and go...
    And what's up with lying? He can probably tell, don't try so hard.

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  • blablablah221
    12 years ago

    Something smells like Bella Swan.

    As a staunch feminist, I have to be honest and say that men should not be the center point of your life - YOU should be. If your earth revolves around him, then maybe you should really look at yourself and try to be a little more independent. After all, what's going to happen if it doesn't work out? Crushes are fine, good, normal. But never sacrifice your self worth.

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