I feel so bad about a photo of my fiance's exe,iin?

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here is my story,two days ago while my fiance and i were on skype he sent me some pictures of him to let me see how did he look like before we know eachother..among them he sent me a picture of him where there were some posted photos on the wall behind him it was so clear..photos of him and his exe girlfriend kissing and huging eachother..i was astonished when i saw it..then he said that he was sorry and that he didn't mean to send it and that he forgot to delete it..i was so mad and now am so mad and i feel jalous especialy about the one where they were kissing.bcuz i haven't been kissed before him..until now i haven't talked to him about it and am pretending that nothing happened but the truthe is am feeling like hell..is that normal and tell me what shall i do to get over this..i know the stuff about he's with me now not with her and that he loves me not her but still not ok..it hurts cuz i love him and we're going to get married next month.

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    it's normal, if you're 14. in which case, you shouldn't be getting married...?

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  • ms_funion
    13 years ago

    just because you're getting married doesn't mean he didn't have a life before he met you. no need to get upset over the past -- you can't change it.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Is this a long-distance relationship? I can't work out why you'd be skyping rather than in each other's presence, especially if you are so close to being married.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      we're not togather now cuz he lives in paris and as soon as we get married i'll be with him cuz am waiting for my pasport and all the paper i need to join him..and by the way we're from the same country

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  • katsu
    12 years ago

    Aw sweetie, he probably did it on purpose to make you jealous. If he gets anything out of it (like you validating your love for him by getting upset and jealous), he might continue to consciously make you jealous! The best thing to do is to play it smart and not give him what he wants when he's not being nice to you.

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  • Cookies&Cream
    13 years ago

    Its normal to feel that way, but its not ok to let that consume you. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel & that may get half of the weight of your shoulders. You should try to move on for the better of both ends. The bad thing when you hold something like this, it may end up in you cheating on him or worst. Let it go, because its just the same as kissing him. A kiss is a kiss it doesnt have any meaning unless you give it one.

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  • BfingIToucher
    13 years ago

    You are overreacting.

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