I feel no pleasure from sex

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Whenever I have sex, I feel no pleasure, no sense of happiness, nothing. Maybe its because the last women I've loved have lied and betrayed me. Maybe I just have erectile disfunction (Though since I'm under 30 I doubt that). I'm not interested in men and I am interested in sex, but when women touch me there I grow cold, I don't feel any pleasure, not even during my first time, I've only had sex a few times but it never felt right. This it's upsetting. My confidence is lower then it ever has been and I can't even bring myself to look at women in that way anymore though I do love the opposite sex. Please give me some advice.

Should see a therapist 6
Should talk to a doctor about this 6
Maybe you're just depressed 1
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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Awwe :( Sounds like emotional distress to me. Feelings affect the body physically more than people know. Especially when it has to do with sex. This might not be the best analogy, but it's sort of like when someone is raped, or sexually abused. It messes them up. It takes time to trust and get used to it again. It would be beneficial to find yourself someone understanding who you can connect with, and trust. That's obviously easier said than done. These things just take time.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      thank you for the advice. Also I think that analogy works best for me in this case

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      • 1000yrVampireKing
        11 years ago

        I feel the same.

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