I feel lonely.

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I have a group of friends consists of 8 people including me. We've been through things together a lot and i consider them as my best friends.

We are graduating from college soon and i am trying to make our last moment become memorable.

Since junior high school i like to make chocolate for ALL of my friends. But since i am in college,i never make chocolate until recently. i gave my 7 best friends chocolate and i was hoping to get at least one.

But it did not happen.

I also write a letter within my packaging to share my feelings toward them. But no reaction at all.

I even confess my love to one of them but got rejected.

My condition right now is i feel really really alone. I want to at least get past valentine happily but i just can't. seeing couple being lovey dopey is heartbreaking when i can't even have good time with my 'best friends'. it feels like i am the only one who thinks them as my best friends when they do not even notice my existence.

Is it okay to feel like this?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I feel for you. Well, you can't say you didn't try. Maybe you would feel better if you donated some of your time to volunteering to help feed the homeless or volunteering at an animal shelter, or some sort of work with the elderly? Those groups that I have listed are just some of the most vulnerable souls, and they are very grateful for the help and happy to express their gratitude for whatever you do for them.

    If you have the time, patience and talent to make chocolate for those who seem to not appreciate you then surely you can help those needy souls who have been forgotten by much of society.

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    • Xander132
      6 years ago

      I have seen you on many posts; you always seem to give good advice. I can tell you must be a veteran at life... #YouGotMyRespect

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Thanks, that's very kind of you.
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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    That's an incredibly selfish thing to do. You don't ditch friends just because they don't appreciate a holiday as much as you.

    Who knows what the circumstances are surrouding these people. They may all be horribly depressed and lonely themselves.

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  • Emokate
    6 years ago

    I have never even had a friend to gift, just a neighbor who I like to consider my friend, but who most likely doesn't feel the same. I can relate to lonely, but be grateful you are at least blessed to have 7 people in your life to hang out with.

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    *Sigh*, I suppose it's time to spread your wings and go find a mate.

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    There are many of us people that are single on the worst of holidays. Yea it sucks being single when did many around us are like you said "lovey-dovey". I have spent about the last 20 years of holidays single. It really sucks. I feel for you too. It seems that the good ones like us get left behind. And it sounds like you need some whole lotta new friends.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    That sad story brought a tear to my eye, on this of all days.

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  • Ps4player
    6 years ago

    The fact that you're trying is a step forward you're on the right path always remember trying is better then not doing anything at all to move forward in life

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Not selfish to care, selfish to ditch them for not responding to a gift appropriately. If it's a string of many faux pas then something is wrong. But don't just ditch em.

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  • Xander132
    6 years ago

    I am 17, never had a single valentines day where I was dating someone... I feel you. It is normal, just focus on personal persuits, and try not to focus on the technicalities of it all. I am sure (or so I have been told by numerous reliable sources) that the right person will come when you least expect it, because a watched pot won't boil. I wish you the best of luck in the real world, so go out there and kick it's ass for me, I will be there to help in say.... 4 more years.

    Hang in there buddy, and as always, stay strong! <3

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