I feel like i've developed a hatred towards women. it hurts.

I've been a rebound so many times, played with. girls will show interest, say they are honest and then suddenly they make up this elaborate lie why they cant be with me anymore only to find that they were still interested in another guy. I hate getting used. its the 5th time in a row and I feel like I can't trust them anymore. I don't want to date because I'm scared of getting hurt so now I avoid every girl that starts to show interest in me because I feel like it will happen again. I'd didn't think it would ever happen to me, but im officially scared of dating...

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  • SockUnicorn92

    Women show interest in you? GOD I wish I knew what that felt like.

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  • riffraffy

    Read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. Scared of getting hurt and being used are teenage girl fears. You've got a lot of work ahead of you if you want to become a man.

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  • Tempest-au

    Sadly, this is life. I'm not bagging women here either, men are just as guilty of running the same "scams".

    All you can do is keep trying. Sooner or later you'll find a good one - at least I hope so, because I'm still looking!

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  • nameless123

    I've been dumped for another girl 3 times now and they all gave me the same crappy excuse that they had family problems. So I am very scared if dating someone new in fear of it happening again

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