I feel like i must be discreet about my horniness because i'm a woman

I'm generally open person about most subjects, including sex, but I feel like I can't express my lust. I'll most likely be branded as a sl*t if I just get with someone, and I certainly don't want to get any STD's/ pregnant. It really annoys me that I have no outlet (masturbation is not the same thing, FYI). Just thought I'd let it out somewhere. LOL

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  • BigRedOne

    call me 1-800-johnson.

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  • THATSWHATHESAID

    you rock :D

    I'm da same !

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  • JCKIIMP

    Be discreet but you dont have to abstain...find someone or 2 or 3 and be yourself. Just try to keep it down at work. Or try a swingers club.

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  • karldaggerfield

    Why not find a nice guy, get married, and screw like a rabbit every night? It beats getting used by men only seeking a horny gal.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Yes according to society women are shameful for any sort of sexual desire. However men are praised for it. However I am in no way saying I agree with being a slut. Be it man or women. Cybering maybe? Yes hormones irritate us all at some point. Dont you just hate growing up?

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  • Sexforme

    There's nothing wrong with the way you feel. Masturbate anyway you feel Would be a new way of getting off. Do you have a man in your life right now. If you do go down to the $.99 store and get yourself some cheap sunglasses

    Next time you're with your man telling you want him to shoot his badge on your face. Tell him you want to lick it off of your sunglasses

    That would be a huge turn on

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  • bigtoy

    Is it really that hard for a woman to get laid nowadays? And there was me thinking that they could get it whenever they wanted...

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  • Cosmicgiggle

    Find a friend where it is mutual and ends at just that

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  • MsUsou

    i know! i think ur normal. i mean, take TV. if a guy has sex with a hot girl he's a hero. if a girl has sex with a hot guy she's a slut! wth? sexual discrimination i say...im a horny person, and i think many many women are too. i think we should be able to express the feeling as much as we like, and it should b treated the same as if it were coming from a man. because (unless excessive) lust is healthy, natural and essential to a productive and comfortable life.

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  • ThatCameronGuy

    Try finding something that could help possibly an animal? You may think it's discusting but hey. To me nothing is discusting when I'm horny.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    You are totally normal! I'm a 20 year old girl and I have always been really horny. Lol but I don't ever express it cause I don't want to seem like a slut. I never ever start sex (I'll start kissing but that's it) Even if I'm in a relationship with a guy I still don't. My bf thinks that I'm a whore as it is. There is no way I can express myself. I even lie to guys about how many guys I've had sex with in the past. I just usually copy the number they say (but mine is always really more) I'm seriously not a slut but some guys suck at sex unfortunately when you are a girl you have to deal with that...

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    • pixie_dust

      Ur bf doesnt deserve u if he's calling u a whore for that! Move on, gf!

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  • LoveYouBabe

    I'm the same, I need some relief. ;)

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  • curious69

    First, get yourself a really good vibrator and have at it when the mood strikes you. Second, get out there and meet some guys, establish some relationships, and when you've met the one that you can trust and who gets your panties wet, let him know you're interested. You're normal, just a little repressed.

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  • combatgal856

    I know what you mean. I guess it's just finding the right people who you trust to talk about the topic with. Me and my best friend make a lot of jokes about being horny and at the same time we are letting out our feelings about the topic and about ourselves.

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  • Dillan

    Hey, enjoy yourself as long as you take reasonable care. Dont just do it with anyone, but have a few guys on your list who will satisy you without making boyfriend demands. Do it, you only live once so enjoy the time.

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  • CharleyDavidson

    seriously where ever were all these horny women?

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  • dumpedagain

    I find that women are willing to discuss this problem, a talk about it with any man who will listen. But as far as even doing something about it, even with a man they know and trust is out of the question. I find that women just like to vent and complain. I was with mt last girlfriend for 10 years and we stopped having sex right after she went to visit her ex husband in Texas. She is always whining about being horny, but when I try to get romantic , she give me the cold shoulder.
    This has been going on for over a year and I got tired of so she broke up with me.
    All I have to say is, if you want to solve the problem , the first step is to start saying yes when you are asked .

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    • pixie_dust

      U r probly a jerk. For some reason u couldnt arouse a horny woman?? No wonder ur 'dumped again'

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  • Fleabitten

    Hey, I know how you feel.

    A few days before my period I get SO unbelievably horny. It sucks not having someone to relieve it...

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