I feel like i missed out because i never followed the crowd

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In person you would probably tell me that everything I say here is stupid and It probably is but i'm 25 and im jealous of the highschool 18 year old d-bags.

I consider myself attractive, but I never followed the crowd. In highschool I never talked like a "gangsta" wore a snapback hat backwards. I thought that if I stayed more "mature" talked regular I would end up finding a mature, sophisticated acting girl different from the rest that would like a more I guess "mature" guy.

But looking back all the hot girls even the sophisticated, proper ones went for the backwards hat d-bags and because if it, I feel like I just missed out on all the fun and made myself an outcast.

The d-bag look just was never me, but yeah I'm jealous of them because they still got all the girls.

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  • Stryk3istrukuout
    7 years ago

    Have patience. You don't have to be anyone other than who you want to be. Don't ever compare yourself to anyone. Though they may seem happy now, you don't know what their lives will be like 20 years later. Perhaps they end up divorced with kids and paying child support. Your dream girl could be just around the corner, just stay true to yourself. There are people like you, myself included, and I think that probably have more going for you than you may realize.

    I've had a lot of these thoughts as I've aged, I'm now 25 also, and staying apart from the in-crowd really has helped me identify myself and what I like, instead of worrying about what makes other people happy. Are you in college? Graduated? I realized I want to get a degree and make something of myself, whether that be a doctor or psychologist or what have you. Some of these people happy for who they are now may be held back later on for never being true to themselves. Keep believing in yourself and stay positive. I think it shows courage.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Be proud of yourself for not having been a stupid douchebag tool! Be proud to be yourself!

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