I feel like i'm not going to be with my bf forever?

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now.
I still love him but during this time we've been together I learned more about him and how we work together, we do have some arguments and we think very different, maybe that's why I don't see this working or me being 100% happy if I continue with him. But at the same time I don't want to break up with him because I still love him and he's a good person, I know he'll never cheat on me and that he loves me.
Also we're living together in the same house because of college, so it's even more difficult because I feel we already have so much...
Just the thinking of breaking up with him scares me because I know it'll suck and we'll both get hurt. It would change our lifes drastically.
I don't know what to do. It's like, I feel that I should, but I don't want to. We're fine at the moment, and I'm not thinking about doing it right now, but sometimes this thoughts cross my head. Have you ever felt like this?
Advices are welcome, thanks!

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    The idea, that there's one other person out there for every single person that will put up with their bs and quirks and everything is like... The best example of human arrogance I've seen in a while. What if this guy, IS ur Rushmore? Lol

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  • BlueReverence
    8 years ago

    The important thing is honesty. You don't need to have a scary sit down talk with him but you gotta say things you actually mean. Don't make him think things are one way when they're actually something different. Don't actually love him? Don't tell him you do. Could someone else make you potentially happier? Don't tell him he makes you sooooo happy. Would you rather have alone time more often than not? Then don't go out with him very often when he wants to. Please don't be a pretender. It will fuck him up.

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  • abigdick
    8 years ago

    There is someone out there that you will find and there won't be a doubt in your mind that he is forever. Stay with someone who you are unsure of and one day you will go your separate ways.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Obviously, though you may love him, you are not passionately in love with him.
    Are you willing to settle for a comfortable, passionless life with this guy or would you be willing to take a chance on trying to find someone who will fill your life with love, excitement and passion?
    Remember, the saddest thing in life would be to be laying on your death bed, regretting all the things you didn't do.

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