I feel like i'm in love... with no-one?

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Okay, so there's a background story to this you should probably know. I had my first serious relationship with this girl- did the i love you's, etc. Happiest time of my life. Then she ended it fairly inexplicably.

That was three years ago. Haven't been in a relationship since, told myself i didn't want to be. Then i see her again, start talking for a while. Next day, i wake up and i'm feeling literally love-sick. So, i told her how i felt- let's just say it didn't have the desired affect.

That sorta acted as closure, but since, i've recently been having these pretty detailed daydreams about being in a reltionship with Someone, but i never see the person. At times, i feel like i'm in love. But it's not her. I know that for sure- i don't feel that way when i see her.

Normal? And any help?

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  • IAINTNORMAL
    15 years ago

    Find somebody new mate.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    yeah, so i think I have the same feeling. im surrounded by jerks all day, but my heart is heavy (literally), and beats hard and slow, like im in love. I dunno whats up with me.

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  • rita_skeeter
    14 years ago

    the girl in your dreams is me

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  • cjwright79
    15 years ago

    Yes it's normal. Only tip would be to embrace whatever feelings you're having. Being intellectual about it will not help.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    i have dreams about girl a lot, when i wake up i usually have to think about who it is

    sometimes it's no one i know
    other times it vaguely resembles a girl a like
    and other times it is the girl i like

    its wierd

    and i always feel like i'm in love with that person after i wake up from the dream

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    dont worry relax relationship isnt everything

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  • Apathique
    15 years ago

    I think you just really want a relationship. It may not be that you're in love, it's just that you strongly desire to feel like you are.

    And I think the daydreams are just you thinking of what a perfect relationship would be like. It's good that you're doing that because you should never settle for anything less. =)

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Its easy to see anther women has runined a poor guys life.

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  • Iz_me
    10 years ago

    It's totally normal. I think it's your mind trying to tell you that you want to be in a relationship again. Being solo for 3 years is a long time to recover from a past relationship. Just think of it. You are moving on, ready for the future, new excitements, new people.

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  • ilola8
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way right now. I feel like I am IN LOVE but with no one. I don't know if maybe that means that maybe someone is comming real soon for me (finally) or that its just my hormones. But its a weird feeling and sad because I can't share it with someone :(

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  • sexystar
    11 years ago

    I say keep yourself busy. Go out party and meet some new people... Who knows you'll find that girl.

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  • sexystar
    11 years ago

    I get this sometimes. But when that person is right in front of u. It doesn't feel the same.

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  • Grauwder
    13 years ago

    Yr lonely man, search a girl

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  • Tomodikai
    14 years ago

    The scientific phrse for this is called happiness: go find some more.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Totally normal. Your mind is telling you to meet other women.

    Almost everyone in life has gone through something similar to what you have gone through.

    The only way to avoid it is to marry the first person you fall in love with or become a priest for life. Even in those cases you could wind up with a broken heart.

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    I have dreams about being in relationships but I never really see the other person, so don't worry about it. Just go on with your life, and a girl will come along when the time is right.

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  • kitty_pancake
    13 years ago

    You're seeing me

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  • mistyluvr
    14 years ago

    Look up Love Addiction on the internet and find out if the symptoms match yours. You will find practically all the same advice all over the place no matter what website you go to.

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  • thegoodneighbor
    15 years ago

    And old classic song: "I know you I walked with you once apon a dream, I know you I the gleam in your eyese is so familiar a gleam."

    I think it is totally healthy. IT will also help you know what you are looking for. You should write a list of the characteristic that you are in love with- then you will know it when you find her. You will recognize here gleam and keep you form dating someone you arent really in love with

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