I feel like he doesnt care about me anymore.

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My boyfriend just recently aquired anxiety. I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore because he is always freaking out about something with himself. I have depression, and PTSD. So I feel like if I bring up something I would like to talk out with him he wont be focused on me. I love him but I really do need someone to talk to and he is one of the only people I trust. Should I just talk to him or am i blowing this out of portion?

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  • firefly88
    13 years ago

    So two mentally ill patients dating, that's normal

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  • mysweetbananatree
    14 years ago

    i've depression too and it sucks. you do need help. btw i've add and the so called "anxiety" that doesn't mean i don't focus on other people by the contrary i always want to know things about other people. you need to tall to him. seriously

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  • KimmyKhaosXD
    14 years ago

    Listen to him, and be like look I listened to you now you need to listen to me, dont be afraid to tell him how you feel about it.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    if the majority of your conversations are about your issues, maybe your boyfriend is not capable right now or needs a break. who knows how much he can listen too.

    christine is right in that psychiatry is a big money making industry.

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  • christine
    14 years ago

    News flash: Anxiety is a diagnosis created by psychiatrists and the drug industry to sell more drugs to kids (trust me, i'm working on my masters in psychology). Granted, some people DO have real anxiety problems that require medication but 90% of the people "diagnosed" with it have absolutely nothing wrong with them. Much like ADD, an anxiety diagnosis means nothing and is just another excuse people use to underachieve and act socially incompetent. Your boyfriend is more than able to give you the attention you deserve. He is simply using "anxiety" as an excuse not to. If you stop acting like a doormat and refuse to buy in to his excuses and hold him to a higher standard he will likely get his act together and give you the attention you deserve.

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  • ChrisOx
    14 years ago

    talk to me, i will help

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