I feel like an accessory

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As the youngest, whenever someone needed to go somewhere but didnt want to go alone, the other person would tell them to "take" me with them. I have never gotten a voice in those matters and honestly, it makes me feel like a accessory someone takes along. Most of the time its my mom or sisters, and everytime my dad tells me to go with them, when HE doesnt do a thing. He tells me to go, WHEN HE DOESNT and stays at home watching tv. I rarely go willingly, but if my dad tells me to go I immediately dont want to go anymore. It pisses me off even when I think about it. So anyways, normal much?

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Yeah parents seem to do that a lot. So did my parents. If one of us was going somewhere we both go.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Oh hey that sounds like me , even though I am the oldest in my house but I always liked going along becuase I like being out and helping my family , I was a lovey little kid . LOL

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  • Scrat
    13 years ago

    It fades when you get older or make a stand now !

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  • SillyKitty55
    13 years ago

    sorry to hear that. my dad used my brother and I as slaves growing up. he made us clean the ground and the ceilings of the house. go get him a soda form the fridge. sometimes we would be up in my room or in the attic on the 5th floor of the house and he would call us to come all the way fkn down to the 1st floor JUST TO GET A FKN DRINK FROM THE FRIDGE WHEN HE IS SITTING 5FEET AWAY FROM IT!!!
    i can't stand that shit. tell them you don't want to go. and tell them you have feelings to and you are a person. not a fkn accessory.
    stand your ground and slam your door if you have to and lock yourself in your room and keep your distance from everyone. thats what i did. i told everyone to fk off and leave me the fk alone.

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  • red_gal_85
    13 years ago

    That sucks you need to tell your parents how you feel in a mature adult fashion maybe if the see how you feel they will understand if not pick your nose and act really annoying when they take you nextime so they wont ask you to come anymore(but it could make things worse)

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  • jrphotographer
    13 years ago

    I hate that. Happens to me too sometimes, I feel so used but so useless.

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