I feel intensely embarrassed about having a foot fetish

Why would you ever need to tell your friends about your foot fetish? It’s none of their business and if they’re not going to get it they don’t have to know.

I actually think the foot fetish is the least extreme of the fetishes and personally see nothing to judge about it. One theory of how foot fetishes were born is that in times of prevalent STDs it was more adaptive to find body parts other than the genitals attractive, one of them being the feet.

Perhaps I’ve been hardened by many years of listening to people’s disturbing fetishes but I find it almost endearing that some people out there are embarrassed about one so tame. Anyway I hope you find a beautiful woman or man who lets you suck on their toes whenever you want.

Yeah, Harvey Weinstein really gave you guys a bed rep. People now seem to associate it with him, and he's a creepy paedo rapist, so that's not going to do you any favours...

It's apparently really common. I personally have never been with a man who expressed this interest, but it could be that some of them did have this fetish and were just too embarrassed to tell me. I really wouldn't have cared if they had, and would probably have been happy to do most foot stuff they asked. Over the years I have had men ask all sorts of disgusting and depraved things of me -Someone just being into my feet would really not be shocking or off-putting at all.

Give embarrassment the middle finger. You like what you like and that's it. Kink shamers are very narrow-minded people.

Remember the acronym YKINMKBYKIOK. Your kink is not my kink but your kink is OK.

well, any kind of deep fetish like that can be embarrassing. but feet is surprisingly common, i mean even quentin tarantino has it. dw about it. everyone has their weird fucked up shit they like, and comparatively feet is pretty tame.

I think society generally is probably more accepting of foot fetishism now than in the past. The key is not being really obtuse and awkward about too soon.

Just casually mention you like the color of her toenail polish, or you like giving foot massages. Unless they’re really prudish, most women are pretty open to it if you’re not super creepy or weird about it. You’ve kind of got to work up to a certain level of trust and comfort to talk openly about it.

Its pretty common. Do you need to tell the world? Couldn't you just give the woman you're with a footrub often? Who doesn't love that.just try not to bust to fast, unless she is intonit like that.

My ex had one. Ot was nice all the footruvs I could ever want. Otherwise it is kinda weird but eh we all got some interest that should be kept from society on a whole

That's far from the weirdest fetishes you will find around here.

A foot fetish is not something you advertise to friends or coworkers. Your lovers will figure it out.

Normal. It is weird but we cant help what turns us on.
I am ashamed of mine and havent told anyone lok.

Fuck em. I keep my fetishes from my friends and loved ones unless they ask. im not ashamed though. if they found out and decided to stop talking to me because of my sex fetishes its their loss. im the one having fun.