I feel insecure over porn

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My husband watches porn. And im really comfortable with it so he decided to hide it but the last time we had sex he couldn't cum so i went through his phone and saw he watched porn. It made me feel insecure because he was watching bbw big beautiful women, I'm 5'6 120lbs..im small. So it makes me feel like he's settling for me because im not his type. That's the only porn he ever watches. Is it normal for men to watch the total opposite of what you look like?

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  • Gspyder
    10 years ago

    It's a little funny, in most women's case they're uncomfortable because their husband watches porn of smaller women. Anyway, the above posts are spot on. BBW probably isn't even his type, it's just the excitement of variety. Lots of men in relationships watch porn, it says nothing about how much they love they're partner or how attracted they are. He married you because you're beautiful to him and he loves you:)

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    What people like in porn doesn't always transfer to real life.

    Fantasy vs. reality.

    BBW might be his little fetish, something he indulges in when he fancies a wank, something naughty and different, but that doesn't mean he'd want a romantic, long term relationship with a BBW. It doesn't mean you aren't what he wants, or what turns him on.

    So I'd say unless he starts making you suspiciously large, fatty meals out of the blue, it's nothing to worry about. Let him have his fetish, he'll love you all the more for it.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Watching porn featuring people who look different to your partner is enjoyable because it gives variety. He doesn't need to look at pictures of women like you when he's got a real life, living, breathing version of you which is much better! :)

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  • confusedgiraffe
    10 years ago

    Thank you. I can see how it can be "fantasy", I just hope it stays a fantasy and he doesn't want to experiment.

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