I feel ignored by my friends

I don't really have any close friends in my group. I sit with them at lunch and talk and stuff but I'm not close to any of them. If they have parties I'm invited and vice versa. But I feel like I'm always forgotten.. Like on those facebook picture where you tag your friends based on characteristics, I'm never tagged, and people basically forget I'm there.

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  • Don't you hate it when you message someone on facebook and they log in and never message you back?

    Really makes me feel rejected!!!

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  • kiki_93

    Same problem...I have friends but I never seem to be included in their little world...
    I recently made a good friend and I thought we could be best friends but lately shes pretty much not been talking to me.
    I cant wait to get to college and strart over.

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  • cgirl123456

    I had the same problem in high school. It hurts to be ignored by the people that you spend time with! I don't know what the solution is, but just know that others have been through this before, and that I know what you're feeling.

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  • hotchickie81

    I totally know how you feel...

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  • TheAnarkyOfLife

    I love this site.
    Everyone understands you.

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  • phoenix_paradox

    I felt the same way long time ago untill I began to ignore them as payback and... Heres the funny thing: ur true friends will look for u. The rest will not care. Only a few (is any) will realize u arent tyere anymore and those people are the ones that really matters.

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  • verselda

    I agree to the comments above!
    you see, people can fell other people moods.
    If you go to school feeling down, negative, sad and lost you not going to be very fun to be around. Its that simple.
    You need to go in there and act as if you are the complete oposite. I don't mean try to be somebody your not,
    Be YOU only Positive and confident!

    Ask youself a question :
    "Do i deserve to be happy?"
    the answer is " yes i do"
    Why woudln't you deserve to be!

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  • Galaxy500

    Quit making excuses. It's your fault they don't know you exist. Put yourself out there - get the confidence and get the balls to call them or to arrange parties with them. Hang out on the reg. You're whining right now I hope you know that.

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    • if you read carefully, you would know that she DOES get invited to parties,and she DOES talk to them a lot, but she still feels left out. So before you start acting like such a b*tch, get your facts right.

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      • Galaxy500

        my bad. I'm sorry I offended you - I was in a bitchy mood that day haha. I guess then.. maybe up the frequency? It won't make you look bad by expressing how you feel as well. People notice when you swallow your pride and share how you feel.. like I just did.

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