I feel i have no motorvation or enthusiasm

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I have no desire to do anything besides go to work.
for as long as I can remember I have always been a "NO MAN" I knock back invites constantly not for any other reason than I just don't want to do any thing.
I just eat sleep and work then watch TV or surf the net, right now I knocked back a family dinner because I lied and said I was busy!
all my work colleagues rave on about parties, concerts and stuff but I have no desire to go to one and have never been to one either.
I know Im wasting my life but I just can't find the key to make it all just work.
Can anyone out there relate to me?

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Based on 45 votes (29 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If you were to suddenly die, how many days do you think it would take for them to find your body?

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  • trytoforgetthis
    12 years ago

    I know what you mean.
    My reason for voting "yes" on the normal rating thing, is because that's just what's going on for me as well.
    I don't know if you talk to people about it or not, but I have and whenever I do, the answer is always, "you'll get over it", "it's just a phase that we all go through", etc...
    ...it's been 4 years and I'm still unmotivated.
    Only doing things because I have to, no reasons to do anything other than that.
    Could be depression. See a doctor if you want. I personally haven't, because I feel I can manage and I don't want a "label" for my current lifestyle.
    ...but hey, don't worry----you'll get over it, this is just a phase =}

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  • Hopeful
    12 years ago

    I can relate to you, but I know that I get like that at times because I suffer from depression. You may want to see a doctor.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    firecrackers

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    I've been to school for 16 years I have my degrees, Im 1 of 12 electrical supervisors of a multi-million dollar mine site sorry I made a spelling error!

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  • (:sweet:)
    13 years ago

    Boring ass maybe u need a girl or something

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  • NYSDOCS
    13 years ago

    When you are on your deathbed, will you wish you spent more time doing other things or in solitude. That is a personal preference. If you feel depressed over it then talk to a professional. I wish you the best and ignore the hate messages. Obviously some people need to be mean to feel better about themselves. Sad, sad little people they are ;)

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  • kekkiumai
    13 years ago

    Are you superhot and made of dreams and wishes? If not dint sweat it

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  • kekkiumai
    13 years ago

    Surf the net? Like... Just porn? Normal...

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    Don't be so hard on yourself. If u don't mind your own company, then that's ok. If your finding it a problem an u want to change, see your doc, do a course, choose days that u will go out/do something an days u stay home.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    13 years ago

    not that many I always go to work and if I am sick I will call and let them know I won't be in. If I suddenly did not show up to work then they ould send some one to investigate

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    Ha. Motorvation.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Hehe. Motorvation. But yes, I have done this before. For me it was depression and not feeling good about myself. I honestly thought I hated people until I learned to love myself. But everyone is different...

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