I feel guilty for not liking my boyfriend's narrow shoulders

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I like my boyfriend's face, his personality, the way he treats me and the sex is absolutely amazing.

However, I don't like his body shape. He has narrow hips and shoulders. They are pretty much in line with each other's. I suppose it's a box shape of body? His shoulders are really narrow.

Why am I concentrating on his shoulders so much? Is it normal?

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal for a superficial immature person, not normal for a mature adult

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    I think it´s normal to not like everything with your partner, appearance and personality.

    My boyfriend isn´t perfect, but he´s certainly closer to perfection than what I am :P

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Hey, so he's not perfect. Are you?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    It's somewhat normal to fixate on a man's shoulders the same way men fixate on women's breasts. I'm sure you wouldn't want someone to objectify you so try not fixate on his shoulders so much.

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  • awkwardgirl995
    8 years ago

    I'm the same way! I don't think you're being shallow like some other people said in this post. It's not like you didn't date him because of this. No one is perfect. My boyfriend is shorter, and it's not that I don't like him because of his height, but I feel guilty to myself that I sometimes fixate on this. I would never say anything to him about it, it's just an internal guilt. I totally feel you

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  • LittleGirlBrutallySodomized
    8 years ago

    Women cannot help what they are attracted to it's perfectly natural and normal. I'm no Romeo but I will say if I had that body shape I'm certain I wouldn't get laid, not a chance. I'd jump off a bridge. That SUUUUCKS for him my condolences go out to your boyfriend.

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