I feel gross

Okay so I have been described as beautiful, hot, stunning I've even once been called and angel...
But I feel totally uncomfortable when guys say those things to me because I feel like it's a lie! Aspecially the angel thing...
Now I feel like I'm sorta pretty but not beautiful in the least and there's deffanitly many people out there who are much prettier then me and have much better qualities.
Now I feel like I have an okay looking face I have straight brown hair with natural blonde highlights that comes down to my breasts,brown eyes I have fairly big lips and one thing that people have said to me is I've been asked so many times what lip stick I wear when I have none on... and I have good skin.
But my face isn't the problem, my face is fine I mean I don't feel as if it's beautiful possibly pretty but not beautiful. It's my body! I feel so big! I am taller then a lot of people or at least I feel that way I'm 5'7 and I'm pretty big boned! I hate it I feel very big and I feel FAT! I'm so self concious!
Is this normal to feel this way?

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Based on 64 votes (49 yes)
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  • MercedesBenz

    Your lack of self esteem is showing.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Jesus Christ, why are people on this site so mean? X.x but you sound beautiful to me, and actually a lot of people go for your body type. It's only been in the past century that they pushed the image of smaller women to such an extent. Many cultures still appreciate the beauty of someone who isn't a twig, who has a figure... That's what i would look for if I did the lesbian thing.

    Thing is, it doesn't matter what your body type is. Up there was my personal opinion, but any body is beautiful, and everyone has their own preference. The important thing is to love your self, not by changing it to what you want it to be... It will change again. You must take the time to love and accept your body for what it is at every phase in your life, must love every stage of your bodys development. (perhaps excluding "that time of the month") after all, our bodies are amazing machines, capable of so much more than we think they are, and they're the ultimate physical vessel that carries us through this life. :)

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  • missmeow

    Geeze 5'7"? Try being 5'10" like me. I'm built thick too, I don't have skinny arms and legs like most girls do. But I don't cry about it. Confidence is all in what you do. And who cares about whether people think you're pretty? If you're nothing but a dumb bitch that does nothing but worry about it then you'll never be truly pretty.

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    • Thank you for try to teach me how to have confidence while calling me a dumb bitch. Really helps.

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  • purplemonkeys

    Confidence is key :)

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  • randomjelly

    Ooo lime green!

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  • okmissdonald

    They are coming out with a new Barbie- suppose to make us girls have a better self image. What a joke!!!
    You are beautiful-you have to believe it!!!

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  • xTheShadyCharacterx

    So based on what you've said i think you were/are (depending on age) a popular girl in school who apways got compliments. You stayed in the same school for most of your life. You started getting snotty them high school ends and you go to college and get a livable job which you can live comfortably

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  • stopit!!stopit!!

    It's normal for your mind to make up problems about yourself that aren't really there, its just a way of self bullying, it sucks, but the fact is, your probably a beautiful person, I'm just guessing cause I don't know what you look like. There's a lot of reason why this could be happening, maybe you're basing too much on what people think, maybe you want to look like a specific person or type of person. You should find out, then it will be so much easier to resolve this problem :)

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  • MisaMeow

    you should be grateful of what've you had.. :'c

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  • p0op

    That's because you are fugly.

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  • rockhead

    not that i wouldnt hit on you lol you sound very attractive

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  • rockhead

    it's pretty normal. You sound very attractive to me though. but we all have things about ourselves we don't like. Im a guy with curly hair and i would give anything to have straight hair, and that really I MEAN REALLY brings me down belive me. there are lots of guys who are taller than 5'7 too so dont worry. Im 6 myself. (im not hitting on you dont freak out lol) but there are people who are going to be into you and some who won't (they can suck it xD) you are beautiful, I dont know what concept you have of pretty and beauty, but it's all in how you belive you are yourself

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  • flowers-madness

    I feel gross often even though boys and men gush over me.
    Its confidence that makes you truely sexy.
    Maybe you have body dysmorphia or something. I have it too.
    You'll find a way ;)

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  • TheD

    I like people that can spell.

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    • nice to know.... not

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  • smashingpumpkinator

    you should probably do a google search on starving people in africa.

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    • why? I know there are starving people in Africa.... but what does it have to do with this?

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    • Channi

      You sound like a very attractive person. It's perfectly normal to dislike your body type, though. Don't let it get to you. Everybody likes something different. Some people like obese people, some people like anorexic people, and some like something in between. Find at least one thing that's unique to you that you like. Next time you feel that someone else is better than you, remind yourself of your one unique thing.

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  • DannyKanes

    I have lime green walls in my house o_O

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