I feel empty without him

I broke up with my bf 2 years ago because I have abandonment issues I didn't know I had at the time but have since learnt I have through getting myself some help from a therapist. I realise I made a big mistake and am still in love with him, problem is he was with someone else and I was ok with that. I found out they had broken up and i told him how I still felt. His reply was confusing and said he still has feelings for me but doesn't want a relationship at this time, we were together for 5 years and never fought or argued and was the best relationship I've ever had. Thing is, I think about him all the time and I'm sick of it, I just want to move on but have had no luck. Should I start dating again and hopefully be able to move on with someone else or do you think it's not fair to a new person while still in love with an ex? Is it normal to still feel like this after 2 years?

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  • nursebetty

    Oh I get it now, I just saw tommythecat that you have a dissocial personality disorder, makes sense now

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  • nursebetty

    What the hell is that ^^^?? Trolling!
    Anyways I would do what your heart tells you to do and if not and you really are sick of it, move on with someone else but tell them so it gives the new person a chance to make an informed decision

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  • he mightnt be in a rush to settle again

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