I feel bad when people say all asian girls are ugly...

Wow. I think the real question is why are asians always asking for pity and reaffirmation. I can't tell you how many times I've directly heard or been asked by an asian if I or other white people thought they or asians were pretty. Who cares what white people think and especially white males, get yourself some self confidence and be proud of yourself for what you are not for what others think of you.
You know, there are whole countries where there are plenty of chinese korean mixes (china mixes with everyone in asia) and people there aren't concerned if they're beautiful because they're asian, but because of the individuals they are. I know its different in the united states but there are plenty of groups who accept and are proud of their "difference" because here' the news flash ... you're not white, you don't look white and no matter who you're gonna marry you're never gonna be white... but you know what IT's OKAY. You have to accept yourself for who you are on your own terms and not others ...not the pan-american model of asian beauty, not the asian-bar girl fantasy, not the geisha or submissive stereotype, not the compulsive academic. When you fight the strength to figure out who you are, you won't have to worry so much about what being asian makes you... and hopefully you'll stop pity mongering 'cause that shi! be annoying.

its not a matter of race...

its a matter of taste.

Personally, I think most Asians are quite beautiful. I think a lot of people generally agree with that. Aside from extreme differences like obesity or deformity which have little or nothing to do with race, I'm sure you're probably quite beautiful too. Beauty comes in many shapes and sizes.

Where did you hear that from anyways? I've never heard it. I've heard the random odd comment on the different shapes of Asian's eyes, but I don't think any of them really thought it was ugly, just a bit different from what they're used to seeing.

Wherever you're hearing that from, just ignore it and feel bad for them, not yourself or your race. They have the problem, not you.

Fuck them your beautiful.. Ppl who do that hate themselves

I am asian. Every man every race when they see me that i am very pretty

Yeah it is completely normal to feel a little hurt by such comments but I wouldn't worry about it and dwell on them. Asian girls rock and I love them and I am definitely not alone thinking they are.

I used to keep hearing that too, but in a different way. They make fun of Asians faces and they're bad qualities but I tend to ignore that because they're really ugly (I'm Asian). I don't hear it anymore though.

Which is it the more of: racism or vanity? Hmmmm....

I think you are referring to FOBs, and definitely, by far, the ugliest. I have never seen one that is hot or even remotely attractive.

Asian chicks are sexy trust me;)

It's grumpy old White feminazis who say that Asian women are ugly because they feel threatened by them since we men prefer Asians.

lol the dude who said that is probably ugly himself. Asian chicks are hot hot hot hot

I don't appreciate racist or blatantly offensive comments but I find comments such as equally annoying and useless:

*****"Falafel87 (35527)
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Asian women are gorgeous!

People who make such broad generalisations - saying *any* particular race is unattractive - are very, very immature.

It is perfectly normal to feel bad, you feel offended yourself seeing as you are Asian. If someone came up to me and said that all British people were ugly, I'd feel offended at their remark, but then I'd tell them to grow up and stop making such broad comments."*****

These comments are equally non constructive as all the writer has done is dismiss any negative feedback as "very, very immature", and responded with an equally general, comment "Asian women are gorgeous!". What has this achieved? Nothing. The writer doesn't even justify his claims. Why are Asian women gorgeous? It's impossible to have a discussion about a topic such as this because sanctimonious idiots dismiss any negative response as racism.

Personally I don't find Asian women particularly attractive. That doesn't mean there are no attractive Asian women. I just find Asian women to lack the traits that men, myself included, generally find attractive. They are generally less tall and curvy than white/European women and they generally lack facial features commonly viewed as attractive, such as more defined noses and brows/eyes. Asian blondes/brunettes do not exist, with the exception of tacky dye jobs.
Of the east Asian women, I would say that the Koreans are the most attractive. The Japanese tend to have a weird, immature "cutesy" aesthetic which I can only imagine appealing to perverts, and the Chinese are commonly viewed- also by other Asians, as unattractive and lacking emotion/style. Having visited both Korea and China, I would definitely say the Korean women are in a league of their own in east Asia.

People are just ignorant sometimes. Of course you're going to feel bad and I'm sorry you've experienced such rude people.

I think Asian woman are quite lovely c:

It might be mean and hurtful, but whoever says this is probably being honest about *his* own personal preferences. Presumably, he has looked at a lot of Asian girls, has found them unattractive, and has concluded that *all* Asian girls are ugly. That's just him, and it makes no sense to try to change him or to argue that he is somehow wrong. He may be inconsiderate and impolite, but isn't it better that you actually learn of his thoughts, rather than presuming he thinks something different?

Rest assured that there are plenty of people who are just the opposite, who do indeed find Asian girls attractive. What one person finds attractive, another may find ugly, and vice-versa.

That said, you should realize that in some places, very few people will find you attractive. In other places, lots of people will find you attractive. You can thus exercise some control over this by choosing where you live, what social functions you attend, and whom you choose to associate with.

i think most asian girls r pretty. ppl who say mean things r idiots. just don't listen 2 them & ignore it. there r many non mean ppl in this world.

This post, is stupid, nobody said this stuff, nobody thinks Asian girls are ugly except ugly white girls and ugly black girls, either of which the OP probably belongs to. Most East Asian girls are beautiful, most white girls and black girls are ugly. Stop stinking up the Internet with your crappy questions. Go die.

im sorry to hear that.but just ignore that person who said u r ugly.and be modest.it's ok if we are ugly. Im asian too. But caucasian guy come to me and say im beautiful. Even some of my own race guys,n also chinese,indian,philipine guys say im beautiful.but few guys who said im ugly is my own race guy haha.i just ignore them n im modest n say 'ok im ugly,thank u'. Im a indonesia malay (follow father in my birth cert),but im mix with chinese,Arabian n malay..

They are either just jealous females or males who dont like girls who are feminine. Either way asian girls can look either really unappealing (don't take care of themselves or dress up) or stunningly beautiful porcelain dolls.

Asian women are gorgeous!

People who make such broad generalisations - saying *any* particular race is unattractive - are very, very immature.

It is perfectly normal to feel bad, you feel offended yourself seeing as you are Asian. If someone came up to me and said that all British people were ugly, I'd feel offended at their remark, but then I'd tell them to grow up and stop making such broad comments.