I feel bad and embarrassed for being infatuated with the wrong person

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Few years ago I was very infatuated with a person. I felt that I loved this person and we were really close. This sounds silly but my mother knew and already strongly disliked my friend as my mum thought she was low life and bad company to keep. My mum had no idea what I saw in my friend and I felt highly embarrassed about this and felt bad for the way I acted or how highly I spoke about my friend.
I couldn't help being infatuated with her, and thinking about it now, I'm not sure why I was either..
I just know she was important to me and that I did love her.

Don't worry about what your mum thinks 1
We can't help who we become infatuated with even if they're not great 7
You're mum is probably right & was just worried about you 2
You shouldn't keep bad company 1
Other 3
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I don't know enough about you, her or your mom to form any sort of solid opinion or make any real judgment about all of this.

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    • deepdankstickygoo
      8 years ago

      I am about to take a massive morning dump.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Squeeze easy, my friend... squeeze easy.
        :-)

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  • TGS.the.chronic.liar
    8 years ago

    Pussy is a drug. This is your brain on pussy... SIZZLE....SIZZLE.....SIZZLE...(pussy in frying pan) . Doesn't get any simpler than this people.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Fuk that! Pussy doesn't interest me, its just a body part

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  • Steve2.00
    8 years ago

    Why do people feel the need to get involved in such silly and meaningless drama like this? What is it about creating emotional turmoil to distract yourselves from doing important things that appeals so much to you people.

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    • 53739
      8 years ago

      Agreed

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    • skilful_soldier3
      8 years ago

      You pretend to be smart on the internet all day because you are a fat asshole with no friends.

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    • Zeus_
      8 years ago

      Sexual hormones, and parents are just trying to protect their child from doing something stupid.

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    • snarkygirl
      8 years ago

      Some people have different priorities

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      • bucho's_butt
        8 years ago

        Most people experience emotions as well. Not steve though. He's very autistic and doesn't understand what emotions are.

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        • snarkygirl
          8 years ago

          He seems like he doesn't care about sex or relationships or anything else. What exactly does he do?

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          • bucho's_butt
            8 years ago

            I'm pretty sure he sits at the computer all day. Doing what? Not sure. Certainly not watching porn like a normal guy. Who the hell knows what the guy does, but I'll bet it's not as productive as he says it is.

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            • Little-GirlRapedAndSodomised
              8 years ago

              I think Steve is a persona and if he's been on here as long as I heard and also considering his peak usage on here is around 2-4am central time (he lives east coast) and it's likely he's autistic although he'll probably never admit it but hes "asexual" AKA "I'm straight but can't get laid because of my autistic spectrum but definitely not a FAG so I'll be asexual" in laymens terms.

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  • Zeus_
    8 years ago

    Infatuation is not love, you didn't love her, and mothers rarely like the girl whom her son is attracted to sexually. So don't worry about it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Firstly I did feel love. Yes I may have been infatuated for quite a while but I felt romantic things as well. I got to know her and she was definitely far from perfect. Secondly, I'm a girl so it made all the more embarrassing since I've been straight my whole life.

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      • Zeus_
        8 years ago

        Apparently you're not straight anymore. Don't worry about it.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Out of interest- There are other types of infatuation right? Like admiration? Do you think my mother would know what type of "infatuation" I had for this girl, like is it easy to guess..

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          • Zeus_
            8 years ago

            No. Infatuation, no matter what you call it, is a sexual desire [to have a particular person].

            You wouldn't say anything about doubting your straightness for feeling bad and embarrassed for admiring someone.

            So from your OP you're saying you have sexual feelings for another girl and you're concerned about not being straight because of it.

            You can talk it over with your mom, and maybe you should anyway. But straight or not, doesn't really matter.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              People seem to think otherwise....?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              http://isitnormal.com/poll/is-infatuation-always-sexual-194260/

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