I feel as if most women are gold diggers.

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I feel like a lot of girls in London and i believe everywhere else are gold diggers. I know girls who say they sucked a guys dick because he had a bentley and i know plenty of gold diggers dating my friends who are with them just for money. Even my girlfriend keeps asking me to take her out to very expensive restaurants (im only 20) and says she doesnt consider it a date if i dont pick up the tab.

They all definitely are, some more and some less	9
Most of them are	11
Depends on where you live	5
Depends on what social circle you're in	13
No, they're not	10

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NeofelisNebulosa

8 years ago

I'm sick of all this shit about how women are gold diggers. I HATE when men try to buy me shit. I pay for my own shit when I go on a date just so the guy won't feel like I'm using him. So quit generalizing

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Well clearly you're one of the few. My friends gf tried to get my friend to buy her a car for her 21st bday and him being only 24. Yeah hes on a very large allowance but not large enough to buy a €40,000 car and my gf every time she hears that he took her to nobu or bought her a chanel bag she gets really jealous and tells me why dont i do it for her? Even though im on an allowance exactly 15x smaller than my friend and 3x smaller than my gf. Knowing it she still tries to push me to take her to the most luxurious restaurants and spend as much money on her. When i asked her to visit my home country she told me to buy her the ticket or shes not coming. So please do explain how you think that no girl in the world is a gold digger. I feel as if the only ppl who chose that category are women.
  
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  - modernism
    
    8 years ago
    
    I think you've completely missed the mark on what Autumn was saying. She never once said "no girl in the world is a gold digger". Nice assumption. She was saying that not all girls are gold diggers. Just like how not all men are players, for example.
    
    The big problem with your idea is that you're saying "most" women are gold diggers. Have you met "most" women? Because it seems like you're focusing on one specific example of one specific girl. That, my friend, is a generalization.
    
    Just because your friend's girlfriend was a gold digger doesn't automatically make "most" females gold diggers as well.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      No, but I did meet hundreds of women from the world's biggest and smallest cities from different countries. Girls from universities for the rich and retarded and girls from universities only for the gifted and I found that all of them are gold diggers. My gf for example is from a uni for the gifted yet she still is one and her friends are supposed to be very clever as well and down to earth as they've never seen money but when we went for dinner me 4 of my male friends and my gf and 2 of her female friends when the bill came we all paid separately and then they told my gf afterwards 'what gentleman.. They didn't even pay for us'. So yeah, I believe I can generalise bcs I did meet a lot of woman from a lot of different upbringings and that have all different circumstances. Yet there isn't one girl that dislikes you paying for her. There are just girls that are still willing to be with you when you don't pay but all of them love when the man pays for everything yet me as a man I've never even thought about the issue of money in a relationship bcs I'm not some gold digging hoe. My gf gets 3x more than me. Should I tell her to pay for me and base the happiness of my relationship on how much money she spends on me?
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      I even know a girl from a billionaire family that has a bentley and a rolls royce to herself and she expects even male friends to pay for dinner when they go out. When my friend was out with her in a restaurant when the bill came she just looked at him in a way that she was really hoping him to pay so he did and she didnt even try to stop him. It's ridiculous.
      
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      - modernism
        
        8 years ago
        
        There are females who indeed are gold diggers. There are also men who are gold diggers. But there are also a lot of people who are not.
        
        And as for the paying situation, it's pretty obvious that anyone, regardless of gender, would be happy to not pay. If your girlfriend makes 3x as much money as you, then for the most part, she should be paying more. It's only logical. But in this day and age, splitting the bill is a very common thing and is completely fair. You pay for what you eat, she pays for what she eats.
        
        There are billions of females on Earth. Seeing a couple hundred isn't a representation of all females. Don't say "most" women are gold diggets when you don't know that - it's slightly insulting.
        
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heckleBucker

8 years ago

Only the gold diggers survived the last ice age. Now, gold-digging is an inherited trait. Women who consciously ignore their gold-digging instincts live happier lives with happier relationships.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  That's exactly how I feel. They either accept their instincts full on and just go for the richest and flashiest guy out there don't matter if he's stupid and ugly or not or they try to remain more refined and profound and pretend that they're not after the money but after a successful man who is financially established but not bcs they want to use his money for their own personal gain (which we all know is bullshit bcs even if they don't want you to be buying them tom ford they still wanna vacate in south of France in the most expensive hotels)
  
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  - heckleBucker
    
    8 years ago
    
    Or, they decide wealth is NOT the road to happiness. Then, they become financially independent, frugal, and like guys for kind male personalities and compatible penises.
    
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Crow

8 years ago

You mean most women you're familiar with are gold diggers? Do you offer more than money?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Not really i guess. That might be my problem. But its so much effort otherwise..
  
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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

8 years ago

At least you've learned it early.

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PinkHairedFreak

8 years ago

Not all women are gold diggers.

When I'm dating someone, I like to trade off on who picks up the bill. If it's more serious, and I know that my partner is living pretty tight financially, I'll pick up the bill or we will cook more ourselves and take it to the local park. The same would go for if I were in a tight financial situation.

Overall, you do want to show commitment and pay for dates, but aren't dates more about the time spent together enjoying each other's company? A picnic at the local park is romantic and damn near free. Movie night at each other's residences is also close to free. An evening at that little Chinese restaurant that has great cheap food is still a date. Hell! Look up recipes online and cook them at your own house!

You shouldn't be the only one paying though. She needs to be contributing too. If she doesn't like that, maybe you should get a new girlfriend.

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- NeofelisNebulosa
  
  8 years ago
  
  I like you, new person
  
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  - PinkHairedFreak
    
    8 years ago
    
    Thanks Autumn :3
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Yeah well thats the thing. She also doesnt consider it a date unless the restaurant is among the most expensive in the city. Im on a very small allowance for the city i live in and yeah i do have rich parents but i dont get the benefits of it financially unlike all my friends who live great and have the money to spend on these girls.
  
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    8 years ago
    
    What the hell is wrong with her? She's being ridiculous.
    
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daydreamer394

8 years ago

Who is stupid enough to say "they all are" xD

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Who is stupid enough to say no they're all definitely not. The few examples ive given in the post already prove that there definitely are some to say the least.
  
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dytrog

8 years ago

I know a girl that sucked a guy 3 X a week for 3-4 months just because he let her pick the color of a vet he should buy. It was in a risky place and she was married.

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[Old Memory]

8 years ago

Meh. I don't know most women but I gotta admit that girls will fling themselves on guys simply if they have tons of cash.

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kradmelder

8 years ago

They are but who cares? Just accept it. God made them that way. Heifers are genetically programmed to seek green secure veld where they can drop their calves. Don't ask them to tend the veld though. If they over graze and there is not enough grass they move on to greener pastures, with calves in tow, as well as your house and car that you owe her for her 'misery and suffering'.

If you tell a woman you have no job, don't want one, are happy living in one room or a trailer, and have no ambition, do you thik she will go for you? True love will go out the window and she will look for someone with the money to keep her as she feels ENTITLED to.

It is not so much gold digging, looking to profit, but a sense of female entitlement in wite women, thinking someone owes them a nice life. In return she will spread her legs and drop your calves.

To me the he best way is not to buy them material things, no matter how much money you have. They will walk out with all of it the minute you turn off the tap. Make them invest in the joint life, help pay some of the bills, do some of the chores. If they refuse, move on. A woman that just wants stuff is a totally one sided relationship. Cheaper to get sex elsewhere. Don'y give her a car, rather tell her you will pay a taxi to have her and her stuff out the door.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  8 years ago
  
  Trust me i've had plenty of chances to pay for dinners or buy her things and i never did. I'm not a sucker but still just the way that these girls think shocks me as well as its very annoying bcs my gf keeps complaining at least 3 to 5 times a day about the fact that i dont spend money on her and pay for dates (she doesnt even call them dates bcs of the fact that i dont pay for them) and keep in mind she gets 3x more than me yet she still thinks that way. Its not like i get 10k a month and she gets 2k. bcs then poor girl fuck it i'd pay if i have 5 x more i wouldn't want her to deplete her allowance. I remember once when we had dinner in a very expensive restaurant and i took the bill and said dont worry and i saw how happy she got that im finally paying for her and then i said lol im just joking here pay and threw it at her and she started crying and stormed out the restaurant. Also after when she was talking to her friend she told her where we went and she was like wooww hes such a gentleman bcs she thought i paid for her then she told her how much she paid and it sounded like she paid for me as well and she started getting angry and shouting at her wtf ?? You even paid for this motherfucker.. i thought he paid for you?? And then she said calm down i just paid for myself to which her friend responded so why didnt he pay for you? XD we should chain these bitches and put them up on a fucking stage and make them entertain us bcs the way they think is really funny in a very sad sad way.
  
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  - kradmelder
    
    8 years ago
    
    I don't mind paying for them when I ask them out. Mine can't afford expensive restaurants. i easily can. If I invite her I pay. I did offer to take her. But it gets tiring when I must pay everything everytime, including airfares.
    
    I draw the line at entitlement; like when she asks me to buy her 4x4, a new car etc. Like is your fanny lined with gold or something? I just refused point blank and she had a tantrum. I told her I stopped listening to tantrums after my kids passed 6. Good bye then. Did that shock her.
    
    They think they are OWED this. For what? If she was at home raising my kids then OK, but they don't even do that. They just want to improve their way of life at your expense.
    
    What does your gf think spending money on her has to do with anything? Does she expect to get paid for services? There is a word for that. Are your feelings dependent on how much you spend? The more you spend the more you 'love' her? Then men must be deeply in love with whores. Then they wonder why men lose respect for them. Any man will lose respect for a woman who puts a cash value on herself.
    
    It makes no sense because the commodity they are peddling is not rare. Half the world has one. And it is a depreciating commodity. A man's economic value goes up with they age; they depreciate.There is always another. More the same shit but the degree of it varies. True Love is a big crock and just blinds you to important things. Rather find someone loyal who will make an input and is willing to, to help raise a family by hard work. If they just feel entitled, ditch them. That mind set wont go away.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      You're 100% right. That mindset will definitely not go away. I've tried to fix a gold digger before to get her to think normally and rationally and did not work one bit. I dont know why i got myself into a relationship with another.
      
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      - kradmelder
        
        8 years ago
        
        Gold diggers are not so bad. They are honest, like whores. You know the price up front and you can choose to pay or not. If you want sex you must open your wallet.
        
        The worst are those that vehemently deny they are whores, claim they only have sex for 'love', only have sex with commitment etc. But when they divorce you they will take your house, car, assets, savings and all. You get the bill later. Those true love types work out far more expensive in the long run but are still peddling themselves for cash. Demanding an expensive ring, it is just another form of paying upfront.
        
        Lets face it, men have always and will always pay for sex, and women are always peddling that commodity as their main asset of any value. Surely men don't go for them for their conversation, their philosophical views, or as riding buddies
        
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