I fear that i will lose him

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so i am currently in a relationship and i love my boyfriend with all my heart but lately i feel as though he doesnt feel the way he felt when we first met, i have been feeling weird lately about him talking to other girls and i went through his phone and saw him writing to a few of his "GIRL" friends talking about me and how he wants to leave me. but i confronted him and things between us got better but just today he asked if he could go out fishing at 4 a.m with this really beautiful girl but she has a boyfriend. i just feel as though i get mad to easily when it comes to females just because of the past secrets with him, is it normal that i feel that way? what should i do? i never met that chick by the way and hes going to be alone with her and he didnt even invite me. and i am his girlfriend

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  • browndoll
    14 years ago

    Just leave him

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  • disthing
    12 years ago

    Sounds like he enjoys the comfort and security of having a girlfriend, but likes flirting with other girls and possibly, given the opportunity (4am 'fishing trip') would cheat on you.

    He's probably talking about leaving you to other girls because he wants their attention / sympathy, and may be trying to indicate that because things are 'unstable at home' there's the potential to hook up if any of those girls are interested.

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  • PeterThePolishKiryluk
    14 years ago

    Im a guy I would say if ur feeling wishy washy about him most offten ur right, i would let him go fishing but he should introduce you to her even if its on facebook or something. Do you guys fight alot, why do u feel he would leave you how long have u been with him, do u live togather?

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    your intuition about how he feels about you proved to be correct when you looked through his phone and found that he complains about you. after you confronted him about it, he somehow smoothed that over so that you now feel that his wanting to leave you didn't happen. i think your feelings are telling you something you don't want to know, which is that it looks like the realtionship isn't working out for him.

    personally, i would wonder about the fishing trip also.

    i think your worries are normal.

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