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I often fantasize about having sex with my girlfriend after a night out at the bar, while she's heavily intoxicated so I could do whatever I want to her... Is it just me or does that sound hot?
actually i don't even think OP is trolling, i've heard that before.
Basically it's just a similar "control" scenario similar to rape-play. Only here, the partner is not "resisting", but unable to resist.
She'd possibly be so dead drunk he can do whatever he wants and the worst that will happen is her vomitting on his bedroom floor.
I think a helpless victim is actually quite a popular fetish, one way or the other. I've had one guy ask me to take some Knockout-pills(i think it was heavy sleeping medication) so he could have his way with me while i was unconscious. I refused on grounds of not trusting him near enough to even consider that, but ya, OP is not alone i suppose.
Just be aware "partner-on-helpless-victim" actually covers a LOT of scenarios, from this over rape-play to certain roleplays...i would say normal to be into that, the specifics are up to each couple...
Knockout pills! Have his way with you while you were asleep? Doesn't sound very fun, as sex is much better as a two player game!
generally true, but much happens in the brain...my theory(not founded on any scientifics i know about) is that those guys are slightly insecure. By "knocking the girl out of the picture" they can first imagine themselves being powerful and evil(raping this innocent maiden during her sleep/drunkenness/tied-up-ness) and only need to care about themselves(e.g. if i sleep, it doesn't matter if i like what he does, or if i come, or if i'm okay with what he does...e.g. if he's a bit ashamed of having a foot fetish, he may do that to a helpless victim all he wants *shrug*)
I agree with you, just saying i think i can see some kinds of motivation for this kind of thing :)
I just hope the knocked out person is okay with having pretty much every part of them violated, because if a guy has this fantasy, he is going to do everything he can think of!
hence i refused. I like being taken advantage of e.g. while tied up, and theoretically i could also imagine(sorry, getting a bit graphic here) passing out, then waking up in a puddle of pee with a hurting butt and sperm dripping out of my vagina.
And then watch the video of what was done to me.
Yeah, perverted and all, but it's like an "ultimate" form of being taken advantage of that i believe i could enjoy myself(not during of course, but the expectation before and the pure knowledge afterwards).
Only thing, of course: You'd have to have a partner for this that you trust absolutely and who also is into this. And both parts united, i have never found yet- and my partner refuses to babysit something like this.