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is it normal to fancy my best mates sister
every time i go round to my mates house to chill or play a few games on Xbox his sister walks in his room and my heart skips a thousands beats and i some how wonder wot it would be like to go out with her wot do i do tell him or just try and forget about it
If hers a true friend he wont mind you wanting to get to know his sister, even if she ends up leting you have sex with her.
When I was younger my 4 bros some of their mates would hit on me and after a while I'd let them have a ride. It didint spiol thier friendship with any of my bros cos they saw it as all guys need it, It did get abit embaressing once tho but other than that. They are all still firends still to
I told her i fancyed her and she looked shoked but didnt say anything till i said upif u dont want to go out we can be mates and now she wont talk to me anymore
it is normal but you will probably ruin you relationship with your friend if you do anything with her
see now here is the problem shes 19 and im 20 hes going to be over protective of that i told him n he just egnored it do i try my luck or just move on
Theres lots of other girls out there, so why date your mates sister
girls will come and go in your life, but mates are forever
don't go there
Ask your friend if he'd be cool with it. If he's your best friend, then you should be able to confide in him. Maybe it's not a big a deal as you think it is. Personally, if one of my guy friends wanted to date my sister, I'd be like. "As long as you treat her right."
exactly, agree a 100 percent with this. My sister starting dating (fucking) my best friend without even notifying me. We still both lived at my parents' place at the time and it just got all weird because of him coming to the house not to see me but to have sex with my sister. Honestly, if you don't talk to your friend before making a move it could really become quite awkward!
obviously i value my friendship more and iv know them both the same amount of time but here is the problem the amount of time i got to know her is making it hard to keep her out of my mind and i find my self thing about her i know i sound like a love sick puppy but i truly believe there might be a connection we both like the same things IE music style of clothing and stuff i find i talk to her better than i do with my friend so shall i tell him or just keep it a secret because i don't want to ruin my friendship
As much as your friendship is important, if you like her you should do something about it. Things could go wrong in any relationship whether or not it is your best mate's sister or some other girl.
If she is in a relationship already you can still tell your friend. Neither your mate or you should allow this to influence your friendship - this is up to the two of you. That being said we don't choose whom we love and nobody can change that.
He should be supportive of you.
what do you value more, this crush or your friendship with someone you've known longer?
My opinion is to be realistic.
If she's older than you, you're less likely to get her.
If she's more popular than you, you're less likely to get her.
If she's more attractive than you by quite a bit, then you're less likely to get her.
Be realistic about it, most of the time love on its own isn't enough.
Talk to your mate about it, if he says he's cool with it, ask her out. Pretty simple tbh.
its nt just her looks i think is hot it her personality shes funny kind and always cheers me up when i see her
It's normal to have feelings for her, but don't persue a taken lady. I would tell her brother you have feelings, then leave it alone. If/when she ends up single, (after waiting for her to mend her wounds,) approach her brother about it again, then approach her. He will end up vouching your genuine feelings for her if she asks him, and she'll be more likely to reciprocate those feelings.
no shes not single and i have known her or a few years same as my mate that's the problem where like mates but i only just realized how hot she is and if i did tell my mae about it im sure he would me annoyed
Well she could like you but if you get together it will affect your relationship with your friend do you have a sister and if you do how would you feel if her and him get together. ask your friend how he feels about it, don't be sneaky about it.
liking your mate's sister is of those things you never act on in my opinion
The "ex" I used to talk about a lot here was a good mate's sister. Worst mistake of my life.