I faked my pregnancy

Obviously that is a terrible lie and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want you anyways, recipe for disaster, yadayadayada...I'm sure many will tell you that in better words...

On a side note, I was in love (or so I thought) with this guy who I thought I knew well and he told me if he ever got me pregnant he would never abandon the baby and he would want to do better than his father who was a drunk. Well one day he did get me pregnant. He abandoned me during my pregnancy when I started to show and went off to party and fuck whores, didn't contact me until 3 months after the birth and didn't see his child until a month after that. He begged me to move in with him to try to look like the good guy I guess, but left all of the parental responsibility up to me and his family while he did drugs and hid in his room, jobless for 4 years. At last I left him and he's still doing the same shit, all comfy with no responsibilities and he only makes a real attempt to see his kid once every couple months or so and no he doesn't help financially either. In fact, I'm pretty sure the last time I let him take our kid for a day he was trying to beat around the bush to get money from me. Hah! I talked to his dad yesterday and even he thinks he is a pos (although a drunk, he actually paid child support and had his kids every other weekend).

I'm telling you this because some guys say they will be there for their offspring, but when push comes to shove they're nowhere to be found and, honestly, you don't sound mature enough to raise a child on your own. Take precaution and please don't take your lies a step further to actually getting pregnant by a guy you "love" to keep him around. All of those tricks are just sick, and how would you feel about a guy who wanted to knock you up to keep you around? Romantic, huh? More like manipulative, vindictive and borderline emotionally abusive.

Not a very solid foundation for a relationship. You have got to tell him the truth and let him go.
Nothing you can do will save the relationship now and it can only get worse the longer you procrastinate.
Go find someone who will love you back.

That's not love, that's romantic obsession. You don't want to love him, you just want to possession him.

Wtf. That's messed up. Did you even think about him? Do you have any idea what's going on in his head right now? He's freaking the fuck out! He was going to leave, but now he's trapped and his life is ruined! You have to tell him now

Would you stay with a liar like you? You should leave him and save him the pain of being in a terrible relationship.

Why are you asking for help when you know the obvious answer is to tell him the truth? Also, I think it's pretty fucked up that you lied about something like that just to keep him around when he no longer wants to be with you.

You are a cunt.

I can imagine you are probably a really nice, cute, sexy young lady. HOWEVER I have been thru 2 paternity suits with an ex gf and again with my ex wife. I was OK if they had really been my kids but, they so easily lied to me since I was in the Navy. They wanted MONEY, so I don't much of a soft spot for women that use the pregnancy card. The ex gf named her son Casey, the ex wife named her daughter Cassandra, they were both born within like 6 weeks of each other. I was really really hating females for a few years back then. And HONESTLY that's not nice, that can cause emotional trauma, stress, and other issues if the situation isn't ready for a baby.

I could go into depth but it would take more effort than you are worth at this point . I want you to tell him the truth and let him leave . You made a terrible mistake , this was a horrible thing to do .. now make it right . You know what you have to do so go be a woman and do it .

That is such a twisted fucked up thing to do. Anyone who uses kids or pregnancy as a tool for manipulation is a warped piece of shit. What's the point of trying to keep someone who doesn't want to be with you anymore anyway?? Get your shit together before you enter another relationship and please don't reproduce.

Happened to me before with a ex gf but I was way too young. All it did was infuriating me, but then again, I was young.

Point being, you shouldn't lie about something that serious and now the consequences might be bad. Definitely not the most tacfull way of keeping your bf.

You two must be very young too, if he doesn't want to commit, then he doesn't love you, why would you want someone like that?

Live your life to the fullest and don't think about having children until your married and reunite all the conditions necessary.

this is on the list of worst things you can do to a dude... I had a gf do this to me in front of both sets of parents at a cHanukkah party like a zillion ago and I still sort of hate her. My mom and her dad seriously wanted to kill me ..

Thank you all for the "positive" feedback

You lying sack of doggie poo

Wow. Just wow.

I've never had his happen to me, but I know guys who have. Currently I know someone who was fed the lie of "I had an abortion and it was your kid".

Women like you are fucking scum!! You're eventually going to tell him you miscarried or terminated - either way this innocent guy thinks his kid has died. I hope you get raped and pregnant so you have to raise a rapists kid as a daily reminder of what a cunty bitch you are!!!