I ended teh relationship and now i regret ... fell so guilty

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Ok, i was in a realtionship for 2 years with a girl, we have the same interests and enjoy everything together, we were perfect for each other. Sometimes its hard for me to open my heart if you know what i mean, but this girl opened it completly. Then i finished collegue and was a bit confused about everything... i wasnt seen things clearly, and i felt she loved me a a lot more compared to what i was feeling at that moment, so i felt the situation was not fair for her cause i really love her, but i wasnt giving 100% of myself so i decided to brake up. She was devastated for 3-4 months, we still went out for movies few times and talked , then i realized i was an asshole and that i really loved her , so i told her i wanted to go out with her again seriously, that this time alone cleared a lot of things for me but she told me she was to scared and was no in love anymore.
i tried to explain for 3 months , she tells me she loves me and i am a great guy but she suffered a lot and know she moved on... i feel devastated and guilty, i had never felt like this before... loosing someone that loved you cause you doubt it... man..

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    ^quoted for truth. I dont get why people get confused when they finally get some real, true, and pure happiness. If you were simply afraid to lose or doubted it was real, wouldn't you fight harder to keep it?

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Also that's what happens when you make stupid decisions in a good relationship.

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  • hootiemomma
    9 years ago

    It's separation anxiety. You ended it for a reason but it takes time to heal and move on. It's hard but I suggest going no contact for a very long time, date other women even if you don't feel like it and time will tell what is meant to be for you.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago

    You should feel guilty cause she may move on, but she might not ever really get over. This will cause problems for the next guys in line that she dates.

    And she said she's moved on. Lots of women lie about that cause they want you to prove that you are serious and won't simply "get confused" over nothing. I can't believe you believed her.

    "Arms" by christina perri might bring you to tears because of your experience.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    *losing

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