I dreamed about a guy....now i like him?

So there's this guy at my uni who I've never really talked to before, and I've never had any feelings for him, even though I find him quite attractive, I don't want to date him because I don't really know him. But a few weeks ago I randomly dreamed that he was my boyfriend and he was kissing me and telling me I was beautiful and everything. Now, since I had that dream, every time I see him, all I can see is that dream and him being so lovely towards me and if I ever see him I always blush and look away. I haven't been this girly since high school, seriously I feel so embarrassed because I don't even really like him. I like the guy in the dream....IIN?

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  • Charle44

    As a guy, I have dreams like that two or three times a week. Perfectly normal. Kinda weird the next day, though. You're right that it doesn't mean anything important, but if it's sticking with you and you do find him attractive then why not get to know him?

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    • kit1983

      Do you think following the dream would be a good idea??

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    • mlbryan44

      Charlie, do you dream of guys too?

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  • kit1983

    I had the same thing happen to me recently and I want to know if it means anything bc I 'm worried that my dream might actually mean something... I haven't told anyone other than the guy I dreamed about but he likes me too... problem is I have a bf

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    • temptedwife

      Your comment caught my eye because youree saying that you have a bf and that was a problem. Im married but torn because this has happened a few times recently with my dreams. I don't know what to think!!! lol. How did things turn out for you? I don't know if I should act on these dreams, brush them off or if I should tell my hubby. So confused lol. (btw, I totally would mind getting it on with the dream guy but definitely wouldn't want to be with him lol)

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      • notablondie

        I'd go for it! Have some fun!

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  • HospitalForSouls

    Go. Follow your dream.
    I don't mean stalk him, I mean talk and date him.

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  • soconfused1423

    Happens to me all of the time, and then it usually goes away pretty fast. So, if this is lasting longer and is an intense crush, then maybe its not so normal. Interesting!

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  • temptedwife

    I think it comes down to what do you REALLY want to do. Dreams could be a navigation to helping you make decisions. And, now I have confused myself lol.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I had a dream about a girl and i woke up all sticky.

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  • Oh yes! This happens to me a lot. And I have a boyfriend - so eek, not good. But yeah, I dream of other guys frequently, then I develop crushes on them. How does one help that?

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  • idntknwy

    I ended up liking a guy the same way,because i dreamed about him and i already thought he was really cute. I ended up tellin him because for some i kept having dreams of him and i just wanted to tell him i liked him.of course i didnt tell him i dreamed of him but it might go away with time.lol

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  • sexystar

    I've had this before but It went away quick. U was probably thinking of Him before u bed or seen him last.

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