I dream of having a daughter someday, iin?

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I'm a male aged 18, I know that this is really weird, and I'm not sure when this dream started.

I do know that ever since I was young, I always wanted a little sister, apparently I used to ask my mum to buy me one from the shop :P I do not really know why I did, I guess since I don't have one? Also, I used to watch some shows were brothers and younger sisters and they would play together.

I guess that I really wanted to have that relationship. I did secretly, get jealous of guys who had youngers sister(s) also. I think that since, I'm older now and realise that getting a sister does not seem plausible, the fact that one day I will have a partner made me realise that there is the chance ( if nature chooses so) that I could have baby girl.

The thought has excited me and not left my mind since. I actually look quite forward to it. The thought I holding a girl, playing, joking, explain my experience of life, hearing her laugh and being there for her just tortures me that this exists only in imagination. I don't mean that I'm desperate to have any sexual intercourse.

I even read stuff on father daughter bonds and so on and now look to the future in great anticipation.

Whereas regular guys of my age make sure they have enough money to buy a beer at the local pub. Am I normal?

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  • sunnyray
    12 years ago

    Normal and incredibly cute. There is nothing more beautiful than a daddy who loves his baby girl. You are more concerned with the reality of life than materialistic things that make you "cool" like beer. This also shows that you are altruistic versus 90 % of boys who are selfish as hell. It doesnt mean youre any less of a man... in fact you are so much MORE of a man. Every girl needs a father to protect her and show her what life is about, but it sucks that there arent enough people like you out there. Just dont forget to live your child just as much if it comes out a boy ;)

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    • regisphilbin
      9 years ago

      ya great response

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    • lotsofquestions
      12 years ago

      thank you

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  • Hekje
    12 years ago

    Totally normal. Don't compare yourself with guys who only think about having enough money for beer, maybe you're just not that kind of person.

    My boyfriend would also like to someday be the father of a little girl. We don't talk about children that often (he's 24 and I'm 20), but if we do, he isn't afraid to mention that he would like to have a daughter. Off course, he would also love a son, but for some reason, having a daughter is a big dream of his. To be honest, I would also like to have a daughter someday.

    Just because you're a guy, it doesn't mean you can't dream about having a daughter. I bet there are a lot of girl who dream of having a son...

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Yeah, I think it's normal.

    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-to-want-a-younger-sister-88223/

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Read more Freud.

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  • ConnorDomes
    11 years ago

    Well i agree that most males simply care about fucking females all life long, drinking beer and smoking and all that crap.. Not about being loyal to one girlfriend all their life - it's impossible for them, they are too predictable and i know that the vast majority of them don't give a damn about a Really Honest relationship. Let alone raising a child. Especially for a teenage male to be thinking of this.

    If you're lucky enough to find a Real man then i congratulate you, both of you.

    I must admit, i'm 18 right now, and i have had numerous dreams where i have a child in my arms or playing around with him / her, i can feel the happiness streaming through my entire essence, then i wake up and i can't stop thinking about it..

    Only mature teenagers look forward to starting a family, settling down and enjoying the quiet life surrounded by the ones you hold closest to you.
    It is hard beyond belief to find a mature teenager, someone who doesn't "troll" nor do any of that childishly pathetic nonsense - even Online.

    But anyway - It is normal, it shows that you are not just the typical teenager :)

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