I dream about my boyfriend being in a relationship with someone else

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I often dream about that thing. It's weird for me how they all seem to be kinda the same. Here's how they usually go: my boyfriend and another female person ( it's usually a close friend ) hug and kiss in fronth of me and I try to make them stop but they won't and I try to reach them but i can't because I feel like I am running in the same place where I was standing and they're walking away and I wake up screaming "NO!" or "DON'T LEAVE ME!" and then I start crying and feeling awfull.

I am too embarrased to tell my boyfriend about this so I am asking you guys: Is it normal to dream about this and feel this way?

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago

    Im a guy and i get them, like the comment above says its just what your scared off and your subconcious, i get them quite often and im terrified of my GF leaving me i know she wont we've been together 3 years now but we did break up once and she did fancy her best friend during this time.

    i just think its cos of how much you love him and your deepest fear is losing him

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  • iinjustasking
    13 years ago

    i used to have this dream because i was insecure with my ex and thought thats what he might do. It was a trust thing for me. Has he given you any reason not to trust him or is he getting a lot of attention from another woman

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  • sucka-free
    14 years ago

    My ex gf used to masturbate to fantasies of her walking in on me fucking some other girl! I'd try to pull out because my GF was watching me cheat on her, but the girl I was fucking wouldn't let me, she'd keep wanting it rammed in her till she'd come.

    Women are INSANE.

    Life's rules:

    1. Women are insane
    2. Never play poker with anyone named after a city

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    • iwannajerk4you
      7 years ago

      And most of all
      Don't ever
      And I mean ever
      Don't go fly fishing with your pants on backward

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  • Galaxy500
    14 years ago

    It's normal - well, that stuff happens to me, too, but it's your subconscious fears is all. Your brain usually takes things and events and thoughts you've had throughout your life and makes a weird dream for your entertainment at night. Just because you're dreaming this doesn't mean anything is going on. It just means that that thought of infidelity has crossed your mind, but in the future I wouldn't tell you significant other because those kind of dreams actually annoy guys.

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