I dont want to let go

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Me and my best friend have been having some trouble lately.We didn't speak to each other for over a month then we made up and now we are ignoring each other again for no reason.She has totally changed from what she was.She use to care about me so much and at that time i used to get annoyed with her but now I want her to care.

She doesn't seem to miss me as she has got new friends and turned my friends against me.So im total loner at school now but after how much she has hurt me and made everyone think im a bad person for some reason I keep crying and feel like I cant give up trying and sill want her back.I feel she is a much better person to me when her friends are not around.

I have always admired are friendship as we have been through so much.I miss her like crazy and I want her back so bad.I wish we could go back to the way we use to be and the worst part is that we got so close to each other this summer,I grow very fond of her.What do you think I should do,move on or wait for her to realised what she has done?

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  • iwantatiger
    14 years ago

    you know, i kind of relate. bestfriend left, end up looking like the bad person, etc etc. however have you tried looking on "her" view? what was the reason she left? i mean was it reasonable? did you do something to push her away? because in my part i think i became unfair to my bestf. that's why she left me. i feel bad too, i feel like im the victim blablabla but you know if you know you did nothing you sure can go on w/o the baggage. its really bad to lose friends, yeah especially the memories you had with them, but you still can find that on other people don't wrap your world around her. go on and continue you life! don't let it stop you!

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  • jessicia16
    13 years ago

    show her your post , she will then have the truth of everything and if she's still a bitch then your better of without her ... if she's warm and kind about it then your friendship will only grow deeper.... good luck

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  • amili
    13 years ago

    Talk to her - find out what is happening. then you can decide what to do after that.

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  • gingin34
    14 years ago

    Wow I was totally going through that same thing not too long ago. My best friend changed a lot because she started hanging out with her old best friend and I do not like that girl, and she knew that. I ignored her for some time, but then I just couldn't take it anymore. I grew jealous of their friendship, because of course, it grew. So I attempted to talk to her. First time, she didn't listen. She kept denying that she hadn't changed. Then later, I told her, if you care about me, and want to remain my friend, then just hear me out..and she listened. I told her how I felt and how I feel us growing apart, and she told me that she understood. From there on out, she changed back. We became closer again. I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you love her as a friend, and you know she loves you too, then don't give up. I almost did that, and if I did, we wouldn't be friends right now. It does take time and patience, but in the end, everything falls through; into it's place. Good luck to you, and wish you the best.

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  • cucui
    14 years ago

    Not worth it man :(
    Have some pride so long as you let her treat you like shit is as long as she'll keep doing so and if she just doesn't want you anymore... Tough man:( but life goes on
    I repeat HAVE SOME DAMN PRIDE too much is bad but a little is necessary if you dont want to be treated like trash
    I've been lonering it out since... about 8th grade? going on lol 4 yrs now
    u live bruh DEAL

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    This is very sad, but she has obviously changed, or maybe the "real" side of her is coming out. I would tell her how you feel and if she doesn't seem to care then you will just have to find other friends. I'm a loner in college right now and I hate it. I can never really seem to find friends that last just aquaintences, except one but she moved away. I know how you feel and it sucks!

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  • lotusgirl
    14 years ago

    omg i used to have this bestfriend
    and we would do everything with eachother
    seriously
    we would talk on the hone for hrs everyday just to hear how our day went
    we would always give each other advice
    she was pretty much my other half
    this one time i just started to get annoyed of her [long story] so i called her a bitch and hung up on her
    and after that we never talked again
    i apologized and called her for her birthday
    and thats it
    we were friends for i think 8-9 yrs
    now we dont even talk
    but its not just because i called her a bitch
    theres more to the story
    anywayyyysss
    the point isssss everyone moves on
    its good to look back every now and then to remember the beautiful times
    but you should also learn to just move on
    you have your own life and your own body
    focus on yourself
    not on anyone else
    dont depend on anyone else to bring you happiness

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