I dont want the guy that im seeing to see my body

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hello I'm at 21 year old woman, i weigh about 135 pounds. I'm about 5'6, and I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, and we are sexually active, but wen we have sex i make sure to turn off the lights, because i do not want him to see my body, if the lights had to stay on i would not have sex with him, and he loves giving me oral sex, i feel very low and at the bottom when performs oral sex on me, but anyway one time he picked me up around 10 that morning and took me to breakfast and then afterwards we went back to his place and watched a movie and then we were about to have sex and he was about to start getting me undressed and i literally got up and grabbed my coat and walked out on him and hurt his feelings. all because it was daylight, and he would be able to see my body clearly. and i didnt want him to see my body. and another time we were at a very expensive hotel with a jucuzzi and he got in the tub and i told him i would meet him in there and i didn't all because i didn't want him to see my body. is that normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    tell him about ur fear, he must really like u to be with u after all that

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    Have you explained your fear to him? If he truly loves you, then he will be totally entranced with your appearance.

    Due to a neuro-muscular disease, I have recently become a big guy (hence my screen name). I feel ashamed of my appearance to the extent that I don't want my wife to see me. However, she explains constantly that she still thinks I am hot and actively pursues mutual fun.

    If he doesn't feel the same way, then he is not worthy of you.

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  • aduusw
    13 years ago

    You should believe more in yourself... If he's with you is because he likes you, so u dont need to be ashamed.

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  • mmcknight89
    13 years ago

    thanks!!! i really needed to hear that!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You must be really really fat with a sloppy body or just ugly

    get in shape

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