I dont think i love boys? am i gay?

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Hi im an 18 year old female, some may think it's a little early to determine my sexuality but i dont know. I dont cum during sex with my boyfriend either and i never have.
I enjoy it and enjoy the company of men also i like the feeling of comfort but i can also get that with friends.
Ive been with at least five different partners (seeing not slept with) and at some point each time ive gone off them, 3 i heard rumours of cheating which could have subcounsiously gone off them.
However most girls get really upset when a relationship ends but i never do?
I dont think about girls or nothing but I'm not totally against the thought i once had a dream about being with a girl but as we had sex it felt like penetration, well in the dream any way?
Any thoughts or anyone else have this?

maybe 9
bisexual 11
yes 3
no 7
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Having sex with "boys" may be half the problem. If you'd like a good sexual experience, you might want to find someone with a bit of experience and a desire to please YOU, rather than rack up another "notch on their gun". Young guys are very selfish lovers, very.
    Sex, like anything else is something that takes practice and no pretty young boy is going to be able to give you a good experience.
    Most gay gals I know are attracted to women and do not have any attraction to guys, which does not seem to be your case.

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    • royalewitcheese
      9 years ago

      My current boyfriend has no experience in oral sex as im his first. Hes not bad however i cant compare because hes my first. But he does spend a lot of time trying with oral sex to make me cum hes more generous than anyone ive met but i still dont feel much which i think is weird

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  • aneeziang
    9 years ago

    Maybe you've still not found the right one. just MAYBE.

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  • eddy41
    9 years ago

    All girls find girls attractive and want to have other girls figures.. And I would say 90% of girls have been put off lads because of the way some are, the comfort you get from your friends and boyfriend may feel the same but there completely different, friends like personality and friendship, partners like the feeling of having someone they can share experiences with an stay attached too, I once dated a girl and the main reason I was dating her was because I wanted to protect her and make sure nothing bad could ever happen to her, maybe this is the way your partner feels

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  • peaceandlovebro
    9 years ago

    You sound like a straight girl...who needs to grow.

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    • royalewitcheese
      9 years ago

      Grow what?

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      • peaceandlovebro
        9 years ago

        Grow cheese.

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        • royalewitcheese
          9 years ago

          Mkay

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Every lover is different some better then others. If that is the only person you've had sex with I think you need time to away from him to find yourself.

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    • royalewitcheese
      9 years ago

      Ive had sex with 3 boys all partners. One of them was so dull i found sex was the only thing to break the tension. After a while sex seems same thing and ends up boring but that shouldnt happen? Its supposed to be exciting.
      I used to be close friends with my current boyfriend and we are very close but sometimes sex doesnt do it for me. Were more like friends than a couple

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