I dont really like her kids

We r a lesbian couple, my gf has 4 kids and we both Pregnant we went through a sperm donor. ..we been together going on 3 years this February and I honestly dont like her kids I try to break up but im the only person she has she 26 and im 19 ...(long story on how we meet) her kids are the ages of 1,3,6,7 the older two are girls the 7 year old has an attitude bigger than her for example you cant tell her to pick up a piece of paper without getting an attitude the 6 year old is fine the 3 year old is not I n school yet so he basically gets what ever he ask for b ut hes so rude to people and hes bot even fully potted trained the one year old isnt talking yet but he crys at everything ...he gotten wrost since we been pregnant and gets up in the middle of the night crying and she dont get up with him so I told her hes switching rooms in she starts an argument about it ...am I wrong for not liking her kids ???

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Time to learn how to discipline the kids.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If you're not happy then leave.

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  • Avant-Garde

    They can probably sense that you don't like them. They need discipline. You need to try to be more involved as a parent.

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  • deepthought33

    They are all still young enough to reign in as long as both you and your partner remain on a united front. Wait much longer though and they'll only get more out of control...if you care enough to do so, that is.
    You are quite young so who can say what your next few years will be like.
    As far as your morality goes...you'd only be wrong if you thought it was fine to stay in the relationship AND not care about them indefinitely. Either make a family or don't. Just don't half-ass it. Sorry. Don't mean to sound harsh if I do.

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  • charli.m

    I smell troll...

    Shouldn't you have thought of this before getting double pregnant?

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    • keira22

      We were fine because I wasn't home all day now im home 24/7

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