I dont know if ial ever find her again.

Alright here it goes... I am 18 and all my life i was raised with a sense of morals i was always told and taught to live by them and be a good person respectful always honest ( If i lie witch i do like everyone else i always end up telling the truth soon after). Now it was not all bad when i was living in a small town up north were everyone knows each other and the way we lived was common, For example when i met someone i liked it never started fast i could barely talk to her for the first few...weeks. iad be to nervous and i would slowly get used to being around them and being in a small town that really is not to hard. There was one time were i really got to know this amazing girl born and raised the same way i was, but after perusing a relationship with her her father told me to never speak to her because i used to fight with my parents allot... and thats not acceptable in that town. Well now that i moved to the city i have matured allot in the past year and no longer fight with my parents at all, i got a job and have made no friends at all in all the time i have been here. Things move so fast girls move faster. Guys meet girls and automatically expect one thing from them. I can honestly say i am not at all like the city guys i work with. I cant seem to keep up because you really can't get to know someone. You sorta have to ask them out right off the getgo or you might never see them again, that would work for me if i were good at approaching girls... But time and time again i get that look from them and i have nothing so say or do but look stupid. I dunno what it is maybe this sounds weird but i want more than sex in a relation ship i kinda feel like a hopeless romantic, i mean i am always into movies that most guys would not want to watch and its hard to admit but i always wished life were like that in a movie and find my soul mate,I am not about what i can get from her, i want to be her everything i want to do things that make her feel good make her feel special and smile. But i hardly ever see this in real life it seems all but a hope i only see in the movies. Am i weird to expect this dream relationship were i am someones everything? Or is this strictly something that will stay in the movies.

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  • arrowhead

    wow, you are a rare one. i thought every men just into sex. well, the truth is, girls like badasses. if he's so bad means he's so goood. it feels challenging, and they try to change you. hahah, it's not gonna work. men won't change, and the girls just end up with those jerks.

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  • AnnaAgain

    if only there were more mature men in the world like you... :(

    All the other guys are little boys.

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    • Guess_Who

      Likewise.

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  • wow, that is exactly how i feel, i don't even like girls just for sex, i am just obsessed with girls i like and i just want to be around them and make them happy

    i would be more than happy with never having sex with a girl i like if i could just be around them, and hug and kiss them and stuff

    unfortunately most girls i think like guys that are jerks similar to the asshole brothershamass above, it sucks but it's true

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    • alexlong

      i feel you on this one

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    • brothershamass

      yeah, lucky me - In my day!!!

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  • you have no balls man really you will never get laid in the big city go back to hicksvill and get with your cousin,Wanna make them happy girls dont like that crap they want a real man who they have to follow not lead so get with the program man...

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    • alexisfreak

      Dude, that whole macho thing is the way rapists think. If you just want to bang a girl and move to the next one, then you are an as*hole.

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  • HarryPotter17

    Finally someone who understands...All my life as i grew up, I just saw every girl and every guy wanting a relationship just for the physical contact. I believe it's way more than that. No matter what others might say, I still believe that a relationship and love is something way more than just sex. It's a connection. It's being there for the other person even when life gets hard. It's for standing up for each other in what you believe in. It's for having good laughs and cry together in the bad times...It's about being each other best friend. It's about really caring for the other person.

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  • Steve2.0

    You need to pick up an extra Y chromosome, I think you're short one.

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  • alexisfreak

    In America, h*ll no. Here, most HOT women that you meet are really dumb. Like blonds. I know that that is kinda prejudice. But it is sadly true. I mean, here girls are all about popularity and looking good. How about school? Being a wh*re is definitely a good job (sarcasm). You cannot have a movie type of relationship in this country. Sure, you can have a sweet wife who is all nice and you take care of her and all that, but she will probably be one of the ones who understands how the world works. HOT girls do not understand how the world works, so your wife will not be hot. Sorry, man.

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  • simonmoto

    comon wake up to the real world, stop being a pussy. life isnt like that!!

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  • kristiewoods

    ur a gr8 guy :) u right to think n feel what u do n if u let women know that they'd love u :) n well i surely belive in soulmates (i found mine :)) n im sure ull find urz as well.. u dont have to be like the cut guys..thats not what love n happiness is abt at all.. n it isnt abt sex for sure.. it is abt makin the one u love happy.. well ur a perfect guy..wish everyone cud be like u :) the world wud be a whole better place..

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    • alexisfreak

      Damn straight. The world would be a better place.

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  • Whoever the girl is that you find will definately be a lucky one. you should try moving to a place that is more relaxed, and smaller, or find a job that has employess whom you can relate with. Another great way to meet girls is going to a community college, you can always take classes that are just for fun, and the prices are very reasonable.

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  • brothershamass

    There are to many words in that story, I skimmed over it at first and thought you were a girl, I was going to tell you that you are high maintenance. Now I realise that you're a geezer I'm not sure if this expression applies to men.

    I suggest that you stop writing long stories and go and nail some girls. You'll find your soul mate eventually and get to shag birds in the meantime until you do.

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