I dont enjoy sex... i want to have that feeling everyone talks about

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ok so this is my story. i have 'hooked' up wit 2 guys. but i never got that satisfying feeling everyone seems to talk about. i understand that sex is a beautiful thing and you are suppose to do it with someone you love. but i cant seem to enjoy it and its getting to the point where i believe i would never get to have that feeling. its stressing me out. i am starting to feel as though im not normal, and that is not a good feeling...Am i normal? do anybody else feel this way?

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  • Letmebeurdrugaddiction372
    13 years ago

    Maybe you are platonic??:) jk

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  • hotmama50
    13 years ago

    use a vibrator during sex. it works wonders

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  • Danila
    14 years ago

    You have to be with someone you feel attracted and relaxed with , someone you like or love i just started to feel sex pleasure after my third guy although i cant have an orgasm,(orgasm is a difficult stuff for a woman),i can have lots of pleasure on the process, just relax and enjoy as much as you can cause its not easyto be a woman,who are able to cum first?the men!! if they cum,they party is already over to us!!!!

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    • Danila
      14 years ago

      i mean THE PARTY,not they party..sorry

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  • one_green
    14 years ago

    Maybe your "hooking up" experiences were not with people you felt love for. I would say hold off on sex until you fall in love and just have that wonderful feeling of wanting intimacy with that person.

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    Seems a lot of people are having this issue. This is interesting have you ever heard of asexual.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think that this is actually quite normal, ive pretty much had the same experience but with one guy and i feel the same about it even tho i love him juss THAT isnt quite the way u think it ought to be.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hmmmm for us guys it's called masterbate :P

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  • mdrnhippy
    14 years ago

    i had a similar problem until i had a steady partner. he was very patient and we ended up finding a way to satisfy me. experimenting is important.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I agree with what others are saying - its probably about the relationship part, not you. You may want to speak with your doctor if you feel you have little libido - and that you should know from just exploring your own body yourself.

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  • MyDarkestHour_x
    14 years ago

    I have been with one person before I got with my fiance and the difference between the first person who I didn't love and making love with my fiance is so different. I always hated having sex with my ex, made me feel like crap.

    You're probably one of those people who are like me and can't just "hook up."

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