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i dont seem toy be affected by world problems very much or when people i know die im not really sad ,unless its a really close member of family or best friend ,i find when i go to funerals i have to fake being sad is this normal do people feel this way too and do others fake it ,i dont think im cold just distanced from the pain of others ???
It all makes sense, except for pretending to be sad... don't be fake, just be stoic.
im exactly the same way, and dont think of yourself of being ignorant. its just the way some people are
I used to feel the same way, but now i dont really feel anything when anyone dies, i guess its part of having to go to war i suppose...
Stay ignorant. At least then you can be happy.
If you knew how they are affecting you wouldn't be able to live with yourself;you'd have to change your self image.
Consider yourself lucky.
everyone is different, some people may think your weird, I think people are weird and fake when they get too upset about people they hardly know dying. In any case I think it is just a matter of what you can relate to. I worry a fair bit about the state of the world especially the environment and wish I could do more to help animals, yet on the other hand I understand what you are saying about funerals, I hate them and worry about whether or not I am acting appropriately sad or not. They seem so insincere, I think I would like close family and friends only at my funeral.
i agree i only want close family to my funeral ,and would like everyone to wear bright colours ,my casket i would like to be recycable and have a tree planted on my grave ,thank you for your comment i think people find it hard to admit these things as they dont want to be seen as cold ,some guy said i was ignorant ,i beg to differ i think he is the ignorant one not to understand that we all are different as you said ,funerals do seem incencere when people arnt close to the person and i think it takes guts to admit ,i now go to funerals and act normally if im sad i show it if im not i dont it feels better that way ,take care xxxxx