I don't want to date the only girl i like

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I really like this girl she's beautiful to say the least, and her kind of beauty goes beyond the skin. She's the kindest person I've meet, and it's always fun to be around her. And just having her smile and wave hi to me is all I need to feel invigorated and keep going with my day. But for some reason I don't want to date her. I can't see myself with her on a date, or doing something couples would do. I'd rather listen to her talk about her day, or just go on a walk with her; but nothing intimate. Now every time I actually find a girl I would want to have sex with I can't. I went to a party a few days ago and I saw this one girl I wanted. So walked over and started talking, we went outside but when I went for the kiss I couldn't do it. I kept thinking about her the one I don't want to date. It's gotten to the point where all my friends think I'm turning gay. Whats wrong with me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Thats not your problem.. The problem is you write every word with a Big Start letter..
    (Im Danish) -.-

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  • Lia
    13 years ago

    I think the reason you don't want to date her is that you dont' want to ruin the friendship you currently have with her.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    gay or idiot. pick.

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  • lalaforthehaha
    13 years ago

    yea i think you need to figure this out because if you arn't really into her than stop leding her on

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  • Curiouscat
    14 years ago

    You're in love honey. Might just not realise (or want to realise) it yet.

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    • Ballin!
      13 years ago

      Don't gimme that shit aiight, we all know love aint shit but some bullshit.

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  • sojourner
    14 years ago

    Your behavior could be seen as selfishness. It's fine to get a charge out of someone, but are you just taking her time and arent willing to give anything of yourself? Drinking her in for pleasure instead of really interacting as a friend, without revealing anything of yourself? That's voyeurism.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I'd say you were in love but I actually think you are just confused.

    You have put that girl up on an idealized pedestal and do not want to get closer to her or anyone else. As long as you worship this girl you will be stuck. And it is you who put her there.

    She is probably wondering WTF is with you. At some point she will just move on and your balloon will burst.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Maybe it's this beautiful girl that you like seem special to you..like she's got u under her spell..but u do not want to screw her cos maybe she doesnt seem the type to go sleeping around.maybe she has some dignity..and the other girls you see and want to have sex with..maybe theyre just sluts.maybe you and the girl that you like but dont want to date..you should go and try to go out on a date with her..you'll never know once you've tried it..who knows..u might end up thinking of making love to her.good luck!

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  • fairy_dust
    14 years ago

    I don't think its weird.
    I'm in the same situation, I adore a guy to bits, and im always wanting to see him, speak to him etc etc. But when it comes to dating him, I just can't bring myself to it.
    Unlike you, we've been intimate, but that still doesnt help me. Maybe some people we're just not meant to be with, is there a reason that stops you?

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