I don't want to convert to being muslim?

Good luck with that.

If he loves you, he should love you for who you are not what they perceive that you should be.

Even if you convert, you will never have actual faith in a religion that you were forced into. And most likely they will see through the act and dislike you even more. If he really loves you he will love you atheist or not.

An atheist not wanting to convert to Islam because of future in-laws is about the most normal thing I can think of.

You really need to do some serious research about that religion before you commit to something you know nothing about. It is accepted practice to stone a Muslim woman to death, if she is raped, for instance. Rape is treated just like infidelity. If you were raised in western society, you may not be at all happy living in a Muslim household.
I urge extreme caution here. Love may conquer all, but it is not a shield from abuse and a hardcore male dominated society.

Does he want to cut off your boobs, cut off your clit, marry you and your 11yo cousin as well, make you have your babies in a muslim country then bring them back to a western country, control what you wear, who you talk to, wear you go , does he want you to strap bombs to your self an blow up an embassy? After your first baby is born is he going to cut it's head with a knife so other muslim parasites can touch it's blood for good luck (PM me for pics if you don't believe it happens). Ask him how young Mohumad's youngest wife was.

My twitter has more followers than Islam

why cant he change for you?

You should do what you want. If you let someone else control what you believe, you don't have any control of your own life anymore.

Bad idea.

its ok for a muslim guy to marry a non-muslim girl , but bare in mind at point u might have children and according to muslim laws children will follow their fathers religion . Have u thought about reading about islam ??maybe u will get convinced about islam its a beautiful religion

go blow someshit up to show you love him

http://intentious.com/2011/09/06/7-reasons-why-islam-sucks/

I don't think that this is a good idea. As someone else stated, there will probably never be an end to the conflict. It will worsen if you have children when it comes to deciding what exactly they will be taught to believe. I consider myself to be an atheist too, but I would be wary about dating a muslim.

You'll be treated as a second class citizen if u don't convert... That is if you're allowed to live

Muslim is an hardcore religion, so be prepared to give up the alcohol, pig and other drugs. Do what makes you happy, Well muslims dont have the right to force you (thats a fact) and if they are then that is not right, Do whatever pleases you and if your not prepared, the your not prepared.

This will sound racist but I don't care, Id never marry a Muslim their religion is one of subjugation especially for women. The word ISLAM means "to submit". Once youre married he will want to whisk you off the Saudi Arabia or some other place where you cant drive and have to wear a burka. Seriously though when you marry a person you marry their family unless he has nothing to do with them. Just ...don't.

you should not become Muslim if you don't believe in Islam......be yourself...you can not make others happy if you are not happy...and if the man you are engaged to truly loves you then it should not be a problem.

It depends on you and him actually, if both of you believe that it will work out then go on, dont mind about people or family cause you both are adult enough to choose your own life, but if you both think it won't work out then break it off. There are people here who loves each other so much but break up because of religion differences.

You should not change for someone who can't accept you for who you are.

What I don't get is how you haven't converted to being Muslim already. If you're dating a Muslim guy and have already known his parents for quite sometime, then what difference would it make if you don't become Muslim when you're married? His parents would've made it a requirement for him to date/marry someone who also practices their religion.

Don't.

Did he say he wont marry you unless you convert? there is no mention of this in what you are saying.

If you don't want to convert you need to tell him that you don't want to convert and forget about his family its none of their business.

Do you like sausages?

have you talked to him about all of this? does he know your an atheist?

dont make somebody happy when you are not happy dont convert to something that you really dont want to deal with really your going to be and a total different world if you marry this guy your rights will be shot out the window your not stuck in the stone age any more women do have rights shoot i would not give up nothing to make somebody else happy not even his parents thats for the birds forget that crap nobody controls nobody anymore

You know there is a story about an Egyptian Queen that married a Muslim but would not convert. He agreed to marry her and let her keep his religion. He said he truly loved her and if that is what it took he would allow her to keep her religion.

No one can FORCE you into a new belief be it religion or Non-religion. No matter how much you tell a person something is a way does not mean they will listen or care. However if you are Girl marrying a man ladies do not have as many rights in Muslim culture. So if you end up moving to a Muslim country you might not really have a choice in this matter.

In the past there has been people who were forced to convert to other regions and they still practiced their old religion. These type of beliefs are not that easy to change. Even people who do not COMPLETELY agree with the religious ideas might follow it still based on the fact they agree with the moral code.