I don't want this. iin?

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I don't want my partner to realize how pathetic I am. I feel like if he/she ever were to be removed from my life, I'd just fucking die. Literally.

This is perceived as somewhat pathetic and very dependent in our society. Therefore, I try to conceal my true feelings and behave as if my affection for him/her weren't as strong as it really is.

Is it normal? Anyone else with the same situation?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Yes. I downplay how I feel too. Not only am I afraid they don't feel the same level of feeling but I also worry that, if they knew, I'd never hear from them again. Ha!

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  • Lillyrosee
    9 years ago

    Its normal to be a little insecure about your feelings. You are feeling A LOT for this person, which means they have power over you, even if they don't realize it. This can be scary, but that's the best part about love babe, its an adventure :) I'm sure your partner feels the same way towards you. Yes, it wouldn't hurt to play it cool, but don't be insensitive, love is good, and honey I think you are very much in love. Best of luck.

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  • Pika-girl
    9 years ago

    Me too. My heart really sank when I pictured this in my mind...

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  • lc1988
    10 years ago

    I guess I feel the same...not so much pathetic but if it didn't work out, I'd just get a couple more cats and not have a serious relationship ever again. I don't think anyone would ever be able to fill the void so why try.

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    I get you.

    I know that I would be okay if he left my life, but it just doesn't feel like it. :(

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