I don't understand why it makes me sad........

Get over it. We all have insecurities. The trick is acting like you don't have them.

I just play the video games with my boyfriend and point out the hot guys on the games. If he can do it why can't I LOL.

Well, I understand that you somewhat sad because of this, I would be too, but if it's just a game I don't think it's anything to panic over yet, when it's starts being Other girls, then you can panic. Now I'm major over sensitive,(just by nature) and I never show my feelings so whenever my bf talks to another girl or txts his ex I get a little sad, but I just convince myself it's overreacting and it's nothing to worry about. Complaining really won't help anything and will just get them pissed off, (unless you really feel it's a major issue that he wouldn't feel cornered and annoyed about)

He's a gross dump him if that's what he does in his free time. He shld b buyin u stuff

i know exactly how you feel... i dont say anything cuz i dont want him to think im crazy jelous but i know it hurts. i have a hard time even watching movies with really revealing 'sexy' women or sex/nude scenes. i always feel 'oh so this is what a sexy woman is suposed to look like' even though i know he finds me attractive.... and often these bodies arent even realistic... i know this doesnt help but yah.. just so you know your not the only one.

I understand you, it might could persuade me that My bf is more into the others than me.. I know that boys would have totally different opinion but I can feel it with you

Why do you feel bad about yourself because some random strippers appear in a video game? It's not like he's playing the video game specifically for the strippers and even if he was how does that matter? You have to be confident in yourself. It sounds like you have some major insecurity problems which in truth is probably why he cheted if he actually did. It has nothing to do with your looks. He wouldn't have been dating you if he didn't find you attractive. He's not going to dump you for video girls or porn girls for that matter.
However, if he did cheat dump his ass now. Then work on your own self confidence and find someone worthy of you. When you are confident in yourself it won't hurt that he happens to gaze in the direction of something even vaguely feminine because by god, he's with YOU, not them and you should feel confident in that.

all men get turned on by hot girls even if they've got a girlfriend wife they might not love them but they find all hot girls arousing any un gay man saying otherwise is a lie. its lust girls you would like to fuck others marry.it doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

i feel so bad fo u. my ex was constantly into games i hated the fact sometimes he never spent as much time with me bt with him i was never worried about the girls in the games, but he cheated on me with a real person.
my new bf isnt as into games as my ex was tho he has a thing for animated girls and i know exactly how u feel it hurts and i feel the same way u do. i spoke to my bf and it made me feel alot better, recently hes started this new game and i never hought id be happy with any computer game but im over the moon the fact hes playing this game means he isint checking out animated porn girls ect. my advice is if hes on his games hes not out cheating but because it hurts u, you need to tell him how u feel and if its too hard then u need to decide if hes worth being with. pole dancers in games cant be helped its part of the game. u can make this a possative thing and relax because you know hes not out cheating or you will drive yourself mad because of this. its horrible to feel the way u do, and i know exactly how u feel and guys just dnt seem to get it but i hope things work out for u and he starts to pay more attention to you xx

He just told me yesterday that he did in fact cheat on me.....n how i feel now is so horrible!!

You are making a mountain out of a molehill. Guys including myself need an outside outlet to deal with life in general a lot of the time. If you are a sweet and caring girlfriend in his opinion and not what you think, then he will need these outlets less and less. However, if your a whinny bitch and try to be controling (Like it ALMOST implys from what is written above this, I meant almost as your not quite there yet.) then he will need these outlets more and more to aviod the aggervation of little shit in general.

If you look at my profile, you will see what I look like and in the text part, I have a link to a picture of what my fiance looks like. I am happy with her although she weighs over a hundred pounds more than I do and I do not wish to leave her. This does not mean I am not more attracted to others, I just really enjoy her company and compassion.

HOWEVER, this does not mean that if I watch porn I want to watch fat people, I do not. I'm just stating that it is what is in the inside that matters and perhaps you should realise that as he probably did a while ago.

Honestly though, even if he pulls it out and starts masturbating hard in front of you to the girls in the game, isn't that still better than him cheating on you? If your not happy with who you are, then change yourself, just don't think he is unhappy with something just because you are.