I don't think i will ever have sex..

I'm a female , I'm 19 yrs old, I'm from Mississippi .. I don't think I'll ever have sex.. I mean I know it's apart of life but it gross me out.. I don't like semen .. I don't see how other people swallow it or do oral sex.. That just not my thing .. I will never perform oral sex.. I have doubt that I will have sex.. I think sex is not for me. Is this normal for me .. I'm single .. I'm also a virgin.. I'm not looking for nobody .. I'm just lonely .. I like my life .. Do you think I'll change my mind one day..

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  • dirtybirdy

    You're fine. You may change your mind someday but even if you don't that's ok. Don't let anyone pressure you about it either.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    A part of life? No. Not everyone has sex, not everybody wants it, and not one has to. It's okay if you don't want to have it. Some people never have sex and some people never grow to want to have sex. I've seen people in their 80's who have never desired sex and they are very happy people. Maybe you will want one day, maybe you won't but, I say, don't worry about it. Live life the way you choose. :)

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  • Pandapants

    There's these two things called asexual and sex repulsed. You could be one or both of these, and that is perfectly okay. Keep in mind, your sexual orientation, romantic orientation, and gender identity do not have to fit into any box that "makes sense" to other people (ex. you can be asexual, biromantic, and cisgender). You may change your mind but there's nothing wrong with you if you don't. Sex isn't for everyone, and that's perfectly okay. You do, or don't do, what feels right for you whenever you choose to (not) do it.

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  • SEWnanist23

    I know the arena maybe a bit taboo but nonetheless Your Human and You get Horney! Don't repress Yourself if You feel this way but You should venture into considering opening You to stress relief to Masturbation! You can be Your own Lover, Yes it's You! I'm not trying to be a Perv about this. Ok I admit I can be a silly guy but I can give counseling too! Please get back to Me! I'm up on the net to Share Me with people! It's what I do!

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    • You are silly and ridiculous ..

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      • SEWnanist23

        I was Honestly trying to be of a Mature support to someone trying to figure their humanity out! You NOT really looking for Help then! I know that vaginas are more complex than penises but they need the same relief just the same! I know it's embarrassing to talk about but it's a barrier You have to pass to get an answer to the question You ask. Yes I'm a Guy and I'm NOT here to heckle You to score You like most guys would. Anywho, I think You need to tapp Yourself to get an orgasm!

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        • Listen I know what should I do .. And I know what I need to do.. I'm just a girl living in this crazy world .. With idiots like you.. I decide not to have sex is my problem .. Wanting your help is your problem .. I think I got it all figure out now ..

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          • SEWnanist23

            Yes it is a Crazy World driving all of Us crazy with it. When I was Your age I was Thirsty for beer and "squeezed" Myself into oblivion. Oh Joy being born a Boy!! Even though I look a little like a Girl! Any gender You are has it's advantages and disadvantages. Anywho, I Hope You find Your niche in life, just don't be a pet or junk hoarder.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Thats good.

    Unless you change you mind please don't have relations because a lot of people wont understand your stance on the sex.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Well, it seems you've got it all figured out already.
    It's gross, dirty and disgusting, right?
    Yep, I agree, you probably won't ever have sex.

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  • shuggy-chan

    Can I introduce you to your new companion, its name is cat/dog and they love you no matter what

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  • WLEM

    Don't rush it dear when it's time, it'll happen. I totally understand where your coming from. I used to think that way, like I don't need a man, frankly I still do but not as much. If there's one thing I've learnt, it's not to rush on love. When its time, it'll happen. Don't be influenced by anyone to do what you don't want.when its happens you'll feel it and you'll know it

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  • green_boogers

    Don't let society tell you what you should do. If you don't like cocks and sperm, then stay away from cocks and sperm.

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  • RoseIsabella

    There's nothing wrong with you, honey. Please be true to yourself! I moved to Las Vegas, Nevada from Jackson, Mississippi back in August of 2001 and I miss it. Don't compare your insides to other people's outsides. You're fine and good just the way you are, sweetheart!

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    • Thank You .. You are awesome :)

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      • RoseIsabella

        You're very welcome.
        :-)

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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll

    One day, the man (or women) of your dreams will enter your life And the following thought will enter your mind, "I want to do everything to you and have everything that is your existence done to me." Don't force it. It'll happen.

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  • HATIMTAI

    I am a male and used to have the same feeling but for the opposite gender 's sex i.e. cunnilingus ! I used to wonder how can someone lick and suck that nasty female sex organ from which discharges flow now and then ! Also i knew the fact that oral sex to women is a taboo in many societies. Hence it grosses me out and used to think it kinky and dirty and degreadable. Hey, but now i loooove to give oral sex to female. Infact i prefer cunnilingus over intetcourse, really ! Now the reason behind this transformation is an intetesting and a lenghty story ! As far as your disliking and hatred about sperms seems to meu as an OCD of cleanliness. I think that you are the super ultra hygiene person who consider much of things dirty and nasty which are not in actual. But hey sweetie don't worry anymore ; there is nothing permanent in this universe and parallel universre ! and so not your disliking about semen ! Semen is nothing but a mixture of glucose, sugar, sperms and other unharmful but vital nutrients.
    Time is the remedy and solution for every problem so for you too !
    Don't be anxious honey ; you too shall start to like sex and hence semen in course of time.
    Live a happy and fearless and yes OCD less life honey !
    Good luck !

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  • Arm0se

    http://www.asexuality.org/home/

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  • dereknor

    Its totally fine to be grossed out by sex. Honestly i got no idea how people can swallow semen!
    But you can be with someone and have sexual activities, without any semen at all. You can have just the sex YOU like

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  • You think you got it all figures out .. But you have no idea..

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  • Listen you think you got it all figure out.. You think you know everything .. But you don't ..

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  • kelili

    You'll change someday.

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  • peecock

    you must be a really dull person.

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    • No not really..

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      • peecock

        what's the point of having to go through the pain of periods every month if you can't even have sex to compensate that pain?

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