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Hi i know this is going to sound crazy. The other night i was fooling around with a guy and at the time I was sure he was fingering me. It felt amazing but now I'm paranoid it was his penis!my eyes were closed and I thi k it only lasted a few seconds.Wouldnt i remember him getting on top of me? I'm not a virgin so how could I not know? I'm so worried! There is a difference between fingering and penis in the vagina right?
If you don't know the difference between being fingered and having someone on top of you/ having their penis inside you, you probably shouldn't be engaging in such activities.
Honey, you gotta know the difference. As a lesbian, I know the difference between fingers and a strap on.
If you don't remember his pelvis touching you, then it's highly unlikely he had his penis in you.
I suppose he could be some sort of mutant with a motile penis like an elephant's that can move around all on its own, but that seems even less probable.
I'm with Endless on this: if you can't tell the difference between a finger and a penis, probably neither should be getting in your pants.
You may not have known what the guy was doing, but it sounds like he did, which was nice for you. You say you're not a virgin, but something like three-quarters of women don't reach orgasm from penetration alone. Maybe you've now had a brief glimpse of how good sex can be for women.
Thank you for being clear and straightforward
I realize my question was strange and I should of clarfied that I have OCD. If you are aware, OCD makes you question everything including your memory.
I am not experienced no, and i was more afraid of not knowing if the man violated me or not
And no I don't remember him being on top of me
His penis wasn't small and neither were his hands..so I realize I should of known the difference..
I don't know a lot about OCD, but I think I sort of understand your difficulties.
I don't know exactly what happened, but if he was really good, he could have got you into a sort of pre-orgasmic state and kept you there for a while, and that would indeed mess with your feeling for how much time had passed and what exactly he'd been doing.
If you actually had an orgasm, it's unlikely - but not impossible - that happened in few seconds. Although, as I said, our recollection of time is not the most accurate in such situations.
You said that great
I know logically he didn't put his penis inside me because that would technically be rape and like you stated, I would have felt his pelvis on me. I do not know why i am so worked up. Mental illness is a literal nightmare. I'm sure there is more of a reason as to why I'm still obsessing over that night.
I didn't orgasm but he had told me he had been with 7 women so i assume he knew what he was doing. I had a lot of bad sex in my life with men that did not know how to pleasure a woman so I guess that might explain my confusion over the matter
its possible for women to have gonorrhea and chlamydia at the same time and not know it. Not so much for men an infected vagina and a infected urethra are not the same.