I don't like my friends?

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They never invite me anywhere or include me in conversations they have, and whenever they want me it's always because they're stuck on what to write in an essay. They don't seem to like me hanging out with them if I ever try, and when I don't they say they miss me or something. None of us have anything in common and the way they leave me out of things makes me paranoid and self-conscious. I know for a fact I wasn't like that before I met them. Admittedly I am more introverted but they make no effort with me, they claim to want me around but they don't know what music I like or even what I look like outside of uniform. Realising this had made me want to stay away from them and just be on my own but I see them in almost every class and my teachers encourage group work and chatting. They've known me for 12 years now, and I want them away from me because of how used I feel and how boring I seem to them. IIN?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    I don't think that you can call them "friends".

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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago

    Mine were like that in high school too, but I really only needed them for group activities and somewhere to sit at lunch, otherwise people would think i'm insane/retarded/loser, which maybe i am but I dont want that kind of attention. On graduation day of HS was the last time I ever saw them... A (more real) friend of mine and theirs, met up at Uni with me and told me after I left they said "we'll never see her again" haha. I was always avoiding them because they made me feel so shit and awkward, turns out I really only used them, but they were kind of douche so I dont care. like you're saying... only keep them so you can have groups for school, then ditch them. They probably wont care, and you shouldn't either. real friends are hard to comeby, for introverts

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    • brookeM.
      10 years ago

      thats sad

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      • Shrunk
        10 years ago

        Lol why?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Friends are just people who are in your life to learn you that you can't trust nobody.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Part of me agrees with you strongly.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Their not your friends.

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  • twixzy
    10 years ago

    not a friend. find new friends that are introverted like yourself

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  • Heyjj
    10 years ago

    Those are NOTTTTTT real friends!!!!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Find new people to hang out with and have oral sex with them as often as possible. It does wonders for your gair as the protein from cum is good for you and will give you shiny hair. Sucking cock is my remedy for everything.

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  • loyally
    10 years ago

    It is better to be with yourself than with people that are using you/trying to bring you down. I know how you feel and after I got rid of all the fake people in my life, I became so happy to be with me. This is an awesome book for loners: Party of One: The Loners' Manifesto

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  • ms.jacksonooh
    10 years ago

    Find more like-minded friends, you'de be better off alone than with these people. They will only lower your self-esteem and obviously you're not very happy being around them, go your own way

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