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My boyfriend always wants to eat me out and I let him sometimes but I don't enjoy it at all. Iv'e heard a lot of girls say how great it is, but I just cant get into it, is my boyfriend not doing it right or is it normal not to like it?
If your eyes aren't rolling in the back or your head, he's not doing right.
The majority (about 60/40) of women I've been with didn't like it and weren't prepared to try with me. I think I've perhaps been a bit unlucky and have attracted women who didn't like it. But, for whatever reason, plenty of women don't like it. You're not alone.
I have no idea what you people are talking about!!! First, what's not to like?? It's fucking delicious. Second, if a guy's not good, tell him it's like kissing and making out and give him a week or two. Practice every day. The kissing and the pussy eating. Works every time! Third, I've seen guys who didn't like it at all, start loving it, so I think it depends a lot on your attitude towards it, how much you really enjoy and how big of a challenge improving becomes to him. If he's got his mind set on pleasing you, apparently he does, don't waste the opportunity, girl! ;)
I actually have a problem with women who only give but don't like receiving. Most true feminists would agree with me too. It's actually a turn off for me when a woman doesn't want to be sexually gratified orally. I can see many women considering this an excellent trait. What kind of woman doesn't like to be pleased? There are so many guys out there who love women who will treat them like sexual Gods and wouldn't care that the women don't require anything in return, but that's stupid IMO. If I'm getting brain and she turns me down, potentially forever as I try to give her the same in return, the relationship is over. There is nothing more important than mutuality. Period. In my humble opinion, I think you'd be better off with a guy who doesn't like fellatio either. If that bothers you, then you'll know exactly how I feel.
Well then I guess its a good thing that 'being sexual' isn't my boyfriends main focus in our relationship, and he actually loves me for me. If your shallow enough to not want to be with someone just because of something sexual that they dont like well that's not a good base in the relationship now is it.
You just have to relax & not be insecure. Take deep breaths close your eyes & I like to grab his hair or the back of his head so you have some control over what feels good for you. Keep trying practice makes perfect;) I promise it'll be worth it!
I personally do not mind it but my best friend also hates it and WHY NOT?
This doesn't mean you don't like/love him, just that you are not into it.
Talk to him and explain it and he will understand, tell him what you like and how :)
Best thing you can do, is talk to him. Is theres a spot that feels good or a way he does it. Or get a book with sex stuff in it and talk to him. I'm not saying put him down make it fun, tell him "oh my friend told me about this book, we should try some stuff from it." that'll turn him on more then anything, if nothing works then i'd just ask him to skip that part of fore play.
My ex-girlfriend said she didn't like it when we originally got together but I convinced her to let me do it to her and she loved it and couldn't get enough of it from then on. Clearly she hadn't been with anyone who was good at it before which sounds like the case with your boyfriend.
I'm not a fan of it either, though they say that with most women it's because they are embarrassed
he may not be doing it right, or you could be just not into it. you may prefer sex to oral, or anal, or some other slightly more obscure sexual act. maybe do a google info search of things that sound like they may feel good (with oral sex) then ask him to try it out? if it's still not doing it for you then just go to something you enjoy more :)
I didn't at all. Now I really do. You just gotta relax and just not think about anything but the sensation. Not, everyone is good at it. And, when it's no good it just feels gross.
there are techniques of giving good oral sex. i have done it for years and have learned what women like and what gives them the hardest orgasms. the foreplay has a lot to do with it for some women and some not. every woman is different. you must learn what feels good to you and guide him to those spots. he will learn your spots and then he can pay more attention to those. maybe you can get him a book which is avaiable on Amazon and he could take tips from that book. if you eyes arent rolling back in your head and you are moaning and screaming, then he is not doing it correctly.
Pussies look weird to the point where I wouldn't even think about eating those weird looking things. But going deep in and exploring the cave would be awesome
Def. normal. I don't like it either. And I've been eaten by lesbians and straight men alike.
Either you have made a wrong decision and you are not really attracted to him but deceive yourself into thinking you are or you have 'sensitivity' issues, down there.
Actually I dont think my "attractiveness" to him has anything to do with it, you can be attracted to someone without it involving anything sexual. So that's not the issue. And I'm not "sensitive" either because then other sexual things would bother me when they don't.
I think he meant sensitivity issues on your clit. It's a common thing for women, if they are too senitive down there, it can be hard to enjoy. Sometimes he has to push hard with his tongue, cause your not sensitive enough, or lick lightly cause you're to sensitive. Give him some tips, it could help.
Initially girls don't like. But after some time they want us to be there for an hour or so... Initially means first few days...!!!
My gf enjoys it..Although she likes it differently..NO touching clitoris ;-P
I don't know how you can deal with that. Annoying restrictions like that would probably cause me to find a woman who enjoys it all. I know people shouldn't have to do something they don't want, but that just sucks.
Why would he find a new woman if he loves the one hes with? Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. And if he does things to please his girlfriend then I think that's great, that's what you should do in a relationship.
It's not a big issue..She knows what she likes..I guess my gf's clitoris is too sensitive.The point of doing it is fun right?
I think your uncomfortable with yourself... And he's not doing it right because if he was you wouldn't have time to think about how uncomfortable it feels while he's doing it
I didn't enjoy it in the past. It just felt like I was being tickled and it would make me laugh. I enjoy it a lot now. Most of the time I don't cum from it, but I do once in a while if my mind is clear. Keep trying!
It's normal, some girls just don't like to receive oral sex. I'm not a fan, I'd rather give.
Well I know I really enjoy it, but I've been with a few guys who didn't know their way around too well down there..
I feel awkward asking questions about technique in this circumstance, either he's doin it wrong or you're just not into that.